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Article #197: Abused Kids Become Lifetime Victims

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Children suffering abuse readily accept to this day.
greater abuse in adulthood. He is not only a veteran clinician in the
That is the conclusion reached by abuse mental-health field but also a
expert Heyward Bruce Ewart, III, Ph.D., distinguished teacher at the university
university professor with 20 years of level. Through Zoe University,
counseling and teaching experience. Jacksonville, Florida, his video lectures
"Child abuse mangles the personality, and have been used by distance-learning
sets up a false idea of self that students across the United States and in
attracts predators for a lifetime," he some 41 foreign countries.
says. A much sought-after public speaker, Dr.
A maltreated little girl, for example, Ewart is a commanding presenter who
will later pick out a mate who is no speaks with great passion on the issues
better than what she thinks she deserves. of abused women and children. He has
That relationship confirms what she has hosted and appeared as a guest on many TV
always thought: "There's something evil and radio programs in major markets, a
in me that caused me to be abused early love that dates back to his original
and now. This is all I deserve." career as a radio and TV news announcer.
Ewart says if she leaves that first bad He is a published poet, and his hobbies
relationship she will go to a worse one. also include photography, singing, drama,
And that's why shelters don't work, he evangelism, and social activities of all
asserts. Shelters offer haven but no kinds.
insight into how one becomes a victim. His test for concealed child abuse is
His new book, THE LIES THAT BIND: THE uploadable from his website. The intent,
PERMANENCE OF CHILD ABUSE, is the first he explains, is to overcome threats and
to establish a link between abuse as a other fierce intimidation that typically
child and further abuse as an adult, most prevent a child from revealing the truth
often in domestic violence. about what he/she has suffered.
The book is in polished manuscript form Such is accomplished by basing the first
and awaiting publication. In the half of the test items on symptoms rather
meantime, he sells the book on his than reputed fact recalled from memory.
website for a nominal fee, either printed The child is thus able, for the first
and bound or immediate email upload. His half, to answer without fear. The
site is devoted to helping victims and symptoms are derived from the literature
survivors of abuse and violence, describing symptoms of abuse and
including the pandemics of school and emotional trauma, Ewart reports.
workplace violence. For a reason yet unknown, when children
The author counts as major victims those take the test, they tend to begin talking
falsely accused of child abuse--about 71 freely during the second half, when the
percent of the cases reported--and he questions are plain and obvious to the
consults these individuals in fighting child. THIS TEST REQUIRES NO SCORING,
what he calls a "no-win system." BECAUSE THE CHILD WILL TALK TO YOU, he
Ewart also offers new tests for insists.
identifying predators, secret child A second intent is to provide a means for
abuse, dangerous employees, and dangerous interviewing the child directly, rather
students. than through a third party. This
Dr. Ewart has devoted more than 24 years approach, when objective, tends to hold
of his professional life to the up in court proceedings rather than
protection and treatment of women, subjective measures that call for an
children, and the family. During the opinion of the expert witness. AGAIN, THE
President Jimmy Carter Administration, he CHILD'S OWN WORDS ARE THE EVIDENCE, Ewart
served the White House Conference on concludes.
Families, and such leadership continues






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