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The Bush Doctrine of Parenting

When George Bush announced the "Bush available to parents often go unused
Doctrine" as a policy of preemptive until it's too late. Often parents
attacks on terrorists and states that unwilling to use such tools, or use them
harbor them, citizens lined up both for properly, will accept heavier losses if
and against his argument. When it comes not outright defeat. Quality intelligence
to parenting and the dangers facing teens gathering is the cornerstone of an
during adolescence, some parents have effective battle plan.
begun implementing their own version of Ben Franklin once said, "Wise is the man
the "Bush Doctrine" as critics try to who fixes his roof before it rains." If
make their voices heard as well. ol' Ben were alive today, I'm certain he
Sexual predators targeting children in would encourage parents to sit down with
Internet chat rooms, temptations to drive their kids long before such problems were
recklessly and at high speeds, and likely to occur to explain their
substance abuse all threaten the lives expectations, the tools at their
and well-being of teens. disposal, and the rewards and
Most parents, whether they know it, or consequences tied to the information they
will admit it, have teens who have been gathered.
at risk from these dangers. Kids need to know that their parents are
Where should parents draw the line in on their side and that they are united
their family's personal battle with these against common foes. Parents need to let
"terrorists of adolescence," you know... their teens know they are providing them
the people and activities that put a with a "socially acceptable" excuse to
teen's life and well-being at stake? Are deter pushy peers. What could be a more
parents even in the fight? How committed potent response for teens than "I can't:
are they and for how long? my parents are checking"?
The enemy is present and totally Ronald Reagan, in dealing with the Soviet
committed. Parents are woefully Union during the Cold War, took a "trust
outnumbered and surrounded, and their and verify" approach that when applied by
enemy will never, ever give up. However, parents properly in this capacity can
in parents' arsenal, they possess the help parents and teens find a reasonable
most powerful weapon of all. If misused, middle ground. Trust without verification
this weapon could be ineffective and may removes the leverage and power the bond
even backfire. What is this weapon? It's of trust has on teens. Many teens believe
the bond of trust between parents and (and rightfully so) that their parents
their teens. are easily duped and don't know what's
Why would parents object to putting a GPS going on. With this belief, teens doubt
system in their teen's car to alert them their mischief will ever be discovered
when their teens broke family rules (and and don't feel their parental bond of
often laws) by driving their car too far, trust is in jeopardy. Little or no
too fast, or recklessly? Why would they behavioral deterrent exists.
scoff at the idea of putting software Additionally, without verification, a
capable of retrieving their teen's email window of opportunity exists for
and Internet chat room discussions on uninformed parents to cause damage to the
their family computer? Knowing that bond of trust by falsely assuming that
substance abuse is illegal, addictive, their kids aren't deserving of their
and deadly, why would parents refuse to trust and treating them accordingly.
implement a home drug testing program If decisions are only as sound as the
that would allow them to know which, if facts on which they are based, more
any substances their teens were using? information is better than less. Facts
While parents as well as teens value the trump gut instinct, and it's better to
bond of trust, some choose to believe get important information sooner rather
that merely suggesting that these tools than later. "Terrorists of adolescence"
may be necessary, makes them the first to exist, and parents are equipped with the
break that bond. most powerful weapons in the battle. It's
Consequently, advances in technology that simply up to parents to use them wisely.
make these accurate, real-time tools




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