Affects of Emotional Abuse in Childhood

Emotional abuse is the wilful or reckless infliction ofan environment which lacks affection and is
emotional anguish which significantly harms acontinuously threatening often lack self esteem,
child’s emotional development. It most oftenmoral awareness and remorse.
occurs at home, when a parent, carer, sibling, relativeIf you are worried about a child you know, you may
or baby sitter behaves in a threatening, humiliatingbe able to help them to talk about it. However, it is
and aggressive way. This can range from neglect,not always easy for the child to tell anyone about it,
rejection, continuous criticism and lack of affection.especially if the person inflicting the emotional anguish
Identifying when a child is being emotionally abusedis a parent or carer. If the child is at school, you may
can be very difficult. The effects can be damagingsuggest that he/she talks to a teacher. The child
affecting the child developing into a healthy andmay feel more comfortable talking to someone that
well-adjusted adult. A child who is being emotionallythey see on a regular basis. You can also contact the
abused or neglected may be slow to learn to walkschool or local Social Services for further information
and talk, be passive and unable to be spontaneous,and advice.
find it hard to develop close relationships, be easilyIf you know the parent or carer well, you can also
distracted and struggle or perform badly in school.talk to them and suggest ways in which they can be
Children need to be loved, shown affection,helped. Many parents may treat their children in an
disciplined, encouraged and protected by those closeinappropriate manner because they are under stress
to them. An important part of normal childand feel that they are losing control. You may
development is the growth of moral awareness,suggest that they talk to a health visitor who may
acquiring a sense of what is right and wrong and thealso be able to assist with difficulties around managing
ability to abide by rules or norms. Children growing ina house hold with children.