Family Books Counter Child Abuse and Bullying

Reading good family books is a vital part of everyprevents abuse. Parents help build a positive family
child's development. From early childhood throughenvironment using hope-filled stories where girls make
teen years, stories shape the world and beliefa significant difference for good. When girls are
systems of girls and boys. Did you ever stop to thinktreasured, their self-worth increases. Their place in
how those stories might be affecting pre-teen girls?family and society is respected and honored.
April is Prevent Child Abuse Month. Child abuse is theHow can parents create a positive influence on
direct result of a lack of respect for the dignity andpre-teen children? Finding and reading meaningful
potential of children. Nearly 80% of child abuse isadventure stories that value the contribution of girls
caused by family members. But it does not endand women is important. Books that offer a
there. Children are verbally and emotionally challengedhope-filled alternative for pre-teen girls and boys. For
at school. According to Prevent Child Abuse America,example, The Rainbow Chronicles: A Bedtime Story
nearly 160,000 children stay home every dayfor a New Day relates the story of Wilby, an eleven
because of bullying.year old girl with a spiritual mission. She must find and
Pre-teens are at special risk. In the United Statesreturn the Rainbow's End stolen from her land and
alone, there are more than 11,000,000 girls betweenrestore its fortune.
the ages 9 through 13. Girls face a special challenge.As she journeys through Neer'stazone, Wilby
When girls are devalued through emotional abuse,uncovers a world of uniformity that dominates the
they can develop a lifelong pattern of depression,imagination and thinking of its people. Flowers are
estrangement, anxiety, low self-esteem, inappropriatemanipulated. The color purple is banned. Wilby
or troubled relationships. They may have problems inencounters men and women, boys and girls. Her
trusting others and pass that mistrust along to theircourage and presence are more than a breath of
own children. Women are relationship experts, muchfresh air -- life-transforming events occur for people,
more so then men. So if a mother or grandmotherfamilies and the people of Eregon and Neer'stazone.
has a problem relating to others, what about herHer self-determination results in a surprise ending of
children?unexpected reversal. Enemies are forgiven, the land is
So what contributes to the overall devaluing of girls?reconciled and its people are reunited in good will.
A significant factor is the stories that build negativeHope prevails over ignorance. Children like Wilby and
thoughts and beliefs about the value of girls. Pre-teenher friends serve as peer role models that make life
books about male-power domination contribute tobetter for everyone.
bullying, verbal and emotional abuse of girls. Violent2007 is a year of hope. The girls of today become
stories cast boys as warriors and girls as victims. Thisthe mothers, business and civic leaders of tomorrow.
enactment abuses the potential of children andTo break the cycle of violence and improve lives of
confuses their reality.pre-teen girls and boys, telling quality bedtime stories
Well-being makes the difference. According tois critical. Family books with positive messages like
Prevent Child Abuse America, well-being involvesThe Rainbow Chronicles provide hope and optimism
everyone at personal, family and community levels.to woman and pre-teen readers.
Personal well-being includes hope and optimism that