Foster Carers Can Use Play To Help Children In Their Care

The word"play" is used to describe activities ofsupport and build a meaningful relationship. Games
children from babyhood until the early teenage years.such as hand holding games, face painting, three
Play is explicitly recognised in the United Nationslegged race, blowing bubbles etc can be used to build
Convention of the Rights of the Child article 31 whichtrust. Dolls, toys, games and books that promote a
states"Parties recognise the right of the child to restpositive sense of the child's ethnic, religious and
and leisure to engage in play and recreationalcultural background can be used to build self esteem
activities appropriate to the age of the child and toand a sense of identity.
participate freely in cultural life and the arts".Babies need reciprocal activities such as peek-a-boo,
Play is not only fun but is crucial to children'ssinging, rolling a ball and clapping games to help them
development and is especially important forlearn communication, language, co-ordination and self
supporting children in reaching social, emotional andworth. Toddlers are able to use their imagination and
cognitive milestones. Abused and neglected children inwill benefit from singing games, reading stories,
fostercare have many gaps in experience which limitgames with balls or bean bags or using clay or finger
their development. Children in fostercare have oftenpaints. Older fostered children will also benefit from
had little or no experience of play and sometimesplay and will learn more readily through play than
they do not know how to play. Foster carers cancriticism or lecturing. Play can overcome isolation;
play a crucial role in helping children; teaching themfostered children often want to avoid connecting
how to play and using play to help in communicationwith people and prefer to spend time with
and expressing feelings. It does not necessarilycomputers, television or electronic games.
require expensive toys or equipment. What isChildren who are allowed to explore their sense of
important is that the child is given attention by thehearing, touch, sight and smell are more securely
foster carer and they are encouraged to learn andbased in the world and this is a sound building block
develop through play.for later healthy development. Play can help a
Children in fostercare have experienced significantfostered child make sense of the world around them.
change in their lives and have often survivedIn play children can explore their own potential, their
traumatic events; they need to be helped to manageskills and limitations, and with support can gain
their feelings and behaviour in a safe environment.enjoyment in extending themselves. Play can help
Foster carers are in a unique position to build achildren to handle fear and worry. Children can
trusting relationship with children using a range ofre-enact in play particularly worrying and frightening
approaches. Play is a great way for carers andexperiences and begin to make sense of what
children to connect. Through play a foster carer canhappened to them.
learn about the child's special needs, convey love and