| Today I made a decision to help women to get out | | | | six years old. |
| off an abusive marriage; I want to help women to | | | | I was physical and mental abuse in the front of my |
| understand that they deserve a much better life. I | | | | boys eyes, I allowed him to destroy me, my |
| was there and I done it, and it took me many years | | | | self-esteem, my self-confident and I started to |
| to get really over it and how to get out there even | | | | believe that I was not good enough and that nobody |
| when the divorce was final for years. I want women | | | | wants to be with me. He told me that I had no rights |
| to understand how they got into this situation and | | | | and I am living in his county so can do with me |
| how they were destroyed with their self-esteem and | | | | whatever he want to do. I suffered and he played |
| confident, and the important part how everything | | | | me out, against my boys, own family, against my |
| even started. When I was able to get out of an | | | | boys teachers, my friends, his coworkers and |
| abusive marriage and raise my kids all by myself in | | | | neighbors. Him and his girlfriend spread lays around |
| another country, so can you do it too! | | | | me to destroy my name, my reputation and made |
| Now let me tell you what I went through and how | | | | me look like a monster. I was harassment over the |
| you can avoid be stacked, so you can move on in | | | | phone about his affairs with his black girlfriend and |
| your life. There are challenges when you are from | | | | why he is doing it. It all was a set up game, so |
| different countries and culture. When he hides behind | | | | people will support him and approve his cheating on |
| the military and tells you that you have lost. You | | | | me, that they will feel sorry for him and in the same |
| MUST fight for yourself and your kids rights. You are | | | | time to drive me over the edge. |
| all that they have and need, they understand the | | | | I know that I am not the only woman who went |
| situation better than you think, and they will help you. | | | | through this situation, and it took me years to |
| Please do not underestimate kids by doing it behind | | | | understand how and why it was happen to me. I am |
| their back or you will pay the price. | | | | now open up myself to help other women how to |
| I was born and raised in Germany, married and | | | | get out of it, what to watch out in your divorce and |
| American GI when I was 26, I was 32 when I came | | | | how to build a new life. Just remember that I done it |
| to the US 13 years ago. After living for 2 years in | | | | in another country without support, and by the state |
| Huntsville Alabama I failed than for divorce. It was | | | | law I was not allowed to leave the state or country |
| hard and ugly, I was alive ripped apart, and on the | | | | without his permission. I have done so you can do it! |
| end I made it. I was good for the 22 months the | | | | Look out for my next articles about my life, the |
| divorce took, because I saw it as a business deal I | | | | abuse, the warning sign, the red flags, the games |
| must win, I must win it because of my boys. The | | | | they play so you will lose in the divorce and to find |
| fight was to protect my boys and make sure they | | | | the ticker point they use to get you were they want |
| got what they needed. All they had was me and | | | | you to be so they still can control you. |
| nobody else. They are so important in my life and I | | | | There is a way out and I will show you how. |
| won for them, at that time they were only five and | | | | |