Inspirational Mother Dove - Nature Versus Nurture - How to Be a Good Mom

All of us long for a loving mother. Many of you mayHowever, no bird is ever as peaceful as the dove.
feel like abandoned children, having grown up withAlthough mockingbirds sing beautifully, if you
mothers who did not cater to your needs properly.inadvertently get too close to their nests, they will
Therefore, you may be continually searching fordive bomb you incessantly. I have seen mockingbirds,
nurturing from others. Some of you may even beand blue jays alike, attack many an animal that
mothers yourself, and are struggling with your dutiesstrayed too close to their young, including dogs, cats,
as parents. Outside forces may easily distract yousquirrels and other birds.
for caring for your children. However, when you lookHowever, the mothering instinctive behavior of the
at the dove, you can gain insight into how to be adove is more than just a force of nature. I believe
successful mother.the dove has true nurturing abilities. From my
I have always loved birds, especially doves. I have aobservations, I understand why the dove is
large tree in my backyard and oftentimes, there willconsidered the symbol of peace. Although I have
be over a dozen doves sitting in that tree at onewalked very close to the nest, the bird simply flies
time. Although they have been known to perch onaway and does not attack. Furthermore, the bird
the window ledge and make nests in the bushes onreturns despite any adversity. It simply waits
the east side of my house directly outside mypatiently for things to change and calm down.
bedroom, I love to wake up in the morning to theFurthermore, the dove has the additional patience of
sound of their cooing.Job as it sits for hours and weeks, waiting for its egg
A few years ago, I noticed a mother dove hadto hatch. I have noticed the dove sit without moving
planted herself on top of the far corner post of myduring the cold, during severe wind, and during rain.
fence. As I went to investigate, I realized she had aNothing seems to phase the bird from its mission of
nest on top of that post. She did not move forprotecting its egg, not even the lack of food or
weeks. Finally, a little baby dove emerged and Ishelter.
watched curiously as that little one learned to fly. ItIn today's society, everything is rush, rush, rush.
took several days before it could fly successfully.Many of us become frustrated and angry if things
The little bird took small steps to learn to fly, firstwe want to happen in our lives do not occur almost
mastering the bottom rung of my fence, then theinstantaneously, as we are accustomed to things
top rung, and finally taking off across the yard;moving at this quick pace. If others get in your way,
without the constant care of the mother dove, thisyou may attack them until they leave you alone. You
tiny bird would not have been able to accomplish thismay want change now. You may be unhappy with
feat.your relationships, job, financial situation, health, or life.
Within the last week, another dove has settled into aIn Matthew 6 of the Bible, we learn that the spirit of
new nest in my yard. The bird, quite industrious,God takes care of every creature, no matter how
made a nest in an abandoned hanging flower basket.small. The dove is secure with this knowledge and
Located right outside my back door on the patio, thedoes not drift from its course of creating a new life.
basket hangs from a curved, inverted wrought ironIt is the ultimate mother, both nurturing and peaceful.
hook attached to the east patio wall. Therefore, theIt continues to wait unwearyingly for its egg to
hanging basket and makeshift bird's nest protrudeshatch.
approximately one foot from the wall and is situatedConsider taking a lesson from the mother dove, bird
about five feet in the air, safely tucked away fromof peace. Wait uncomplainingly for the new life you
other intruders, such as cats or squirrels.are birthing to come forth-the new life of spiritual
Since its discovery, I find myself quite drawn toascension within you. No matter the cold attitudes of
watch and protect the bird. The mother bird rarelyothers, the winds of change, or the rain and storms
leaves the nest. It can sit for almost twenty-fourof life, stay the course. Do not let others ruffle your
hours without moving. It is amazing. When myfeathers. Simply fly away from trouble and return to
yardmen appeared the other day to cut the grass, Ithat place of peace when things have calmed down.
gave strict instructions not to disturb the nest. TheDo not abandon your post and worry about other
bird did fly off during all the commotion. However,things. You will be taken care of by the spirit of God
within hours, she lovingly appeared again and took upjust as occurs with the dove. In doing so, you will be
her position over the small egg.rewarded with a beautiful new life-a life that will allow
There are other birds in nature, such as mockingbirdsyou to soar high!
and blue jays, who have built nests in my yard.