| The following factors increase the likelihood of a | | | | because he probably never planned to marry her in |
| partner being abused in a relationship: | | | | the first place. |
| 1. A woman who was abused as child can feel it is | | | | 8. A woman planning to leave a marriage where she |
| normal to get abused in life and so would not | | | | has been emotionally abused may be attacked by |
| negotiate to be treated with respect by the husband. | | | | the husband. |
| 2. A husband with violent temper and who is very | | | | 9. A woman with physical or mental instability who |
| possessive in nature might succumb to fits of | | | | cannot stand up to the husband can be abused. |
| jealousy whenever the partner associates with other | | | | 10. A poor unemployed woman might be of less |
| males. | | | | economic value to a husband who is chronically |
| 3. A woman that did not get love growing up from | | | | strapped for money. |
| her father seeks love from any man that pretends | | | | 11. A recently separated or divorced woman who is |
| to love her. Her judgment is impaired because she | | | | stalked by her former partner may be at risk for an |
| cannot distinguish true love from lust and so rushes in | | | | attack. |
| to marriage with a violent man. | | | | 12. A woman married to an unemployed or |
| 4. A woman who married a man against her parents' | | | | underemployed man could be at the receiving end of |
| wish becomes socially isolated from her family leaving | | | | such a man's frustrations. A man in such a state is |
| her at the mercy of a husband who does not feel | | | | very sensitive to any action that suggest his waning |
| accountable to her family and can afford to treat her | | | | influence in the home. |
| anyhow. | | | | 13. A woman married to a man that was emotionally |
| 5. A woman married to a substance abuser or | | | | and verbally abusive during courtship may become a |
| alcoholic would be at risk for physical abuse because | | | | victim of domestic violence later on. |
| the husband may not always be in control of himself. | | | | 14. A woman that has little regard for her husband |
| 6. A husband who neither goes to church nor | | | | and shows it in her dealings with him may be at risk |
| believes in God may not have any qualms behaving | | | | for physical abuse. |
| violently towards his wife. He is not accountable to | | | | 15. A woman married to a man with a history of |
| any pastor or religious leader. | | | | physical abuse in previous relationships may be at risk |
| 7. A woman who got pregnant out of wedlock and | | | | for physical abuse in marriage unless the man had |
| had to marry the man to mitigate the shame may be | | | | gone for professional therapy. |
| subject to violent outburst from the husband | | | | |