Psychological Abuse and Divorce - Mental Illness by Layman's Declaration

For almost every battered woman and abused man Icreditable and trustworthy psychologist that
work with, there is a layman's label attached to theunderstands the psychosocial politics of domestic
core of their self-perception. This label is typicallyviolence.
bestowed upon them by their battering partner or byYour Internalization of the Mental Illness or Not
allies supporting his/her plight to save face and toNow as far as your internalizing these unprofessional
discredit and silence the abused.labels, either consciously or unconsciously, this will be
But the question is where do these nonprofessionalyour job and no one else's. It is all up to you as to
people obtain license to provide these diagnoses?how you receive and process what is dished out to
And why do these battered women and menyou. No one knows you better than yourself, no
internalize the layman's psychiatric label?matter what anyone tells you.
Who Has License to Say You're Mentally Ill?Your job is to find the place within where your voice
I spent four years in undergraduate psychologyonly is present and pose the question, "Is what's
study and then four years of graduate psychologybeing said about me true?" Now if you don't feel
study and experimental research, followed by a yearequipped to answer such a question realistically
of internship and then two years assistantship andbecause you have no idea what this diagnostic label
preparation for licensing by the board of psychologistmeans, then you will need to do some homework
examiners in order to be able to call someone abefore you can proceed with the inner inquiry.
"bipolar disorder."Some people may be more comfortable doing their
Actually, I had the ability to make the diagnosis duringresearch online, others may wish to go to the library
my advanced study, but to be professionallyand some have a trusted professional they can
legitimate and insurance reimbursable, I had to endureconsult. Whatever the method you choose for your
the full stretch of professional preparations describedpersonal research, most important is that it be done
above. So I'm wondering how one can declare thebefore you retreat internally to ask the question: is it
same professional rights and responsibilities withouttrue?
any training to do what it took me 11 years to earn.Now once you have satisfied your cognitive and
I'm sure you understand where this is going.intellectual understanding, it is time to explore the
If you ever are subjected to another person flinginginquiry from your inner knowing of yourself. Keep
a psychiatric label upon you, ignore it and ignore themposing the question, Is it true that I am_______?
if this person has no business doing so. Then comesYou will see over time, a wealth of revelations
the issue of slander. For that, seek legal advice. Andemerge and with this the thought that troubles you
secure a second psychological evaluation by awill let go of you.