Reasons to Be Cheerful - Part 3

The end of the year is upon us and with it comesthe doing. To do good for others you have to dive
the opportunity to close a chapter of our lives andin. Work at a food bank. Give the guy at the
start anew.intersection $5 and a kind word. Volunteer at a
What an amazing annual event this is. Do any of uscharitable organization. Visit the prison. Help the sick.
truly appreciate the opportunity this time of yearDonating money is fine but it's giving by proxy; give
gives us? We start January 1, fresh as all the eventsof yourself, in addition to your pocketbook.
prior become something that happened 'last year.'There are dozens of organizations that rely on
Leading up to New Year's Eve, we reminisce on avolunteers to fulfill their mission. I'll name two because
year in which we had success and disappointments;I am familiar with them; hospice and the Guardian ad
happiness and sadness; opportunities for love; aLitem program. Both operate on a local level.
lifetime of emotions. Some people have ended theHospice is a place where people, young and old go to
year broke, their money lost, others have made theirdie. Nobody should enter or leave this world alone.
fortune. Some have lost or gained a job. Some haveThese volunteers comfort the dying; talk to them;
found or lost their faith, for a million reasons; othersprovide them emotional support; empathize and
have had a spiritual awakening. Either way, when itcounsel, ensure their comfort. At times simply being
comes down to it we all have a reason to bepresent at the bedside is all that is asked. Your time
cheerful; we are alive, ready for a new beginning. Ais cherished and very welcome.
clean slate awaits.The Guardian ad Litem (GAL) program, also known
Try as we might we can't relive the past nor can weas the Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA);
predict the future. That's an excellent reason tothese groups are entirely volunteer based and
enjoy the moment we have now. Because we trulyprovide extensive support services for abused,
only have this moment. Take a look around you asabandoned and neglected children in our community.
you finish reading. Look at your loved ones, yourGAL volunteers represent the best interests of these
friends, your pets; the people who are important tochildren in court. The volunteers are the eyes and
you.ears of the judge and, armed with a powerful court
Enjoy them for who and what they are today, asorder, investigate the cases to which they are
they (or you and I) may not be here to appreciateassigned to ensure that the children are properly
next year. Our lives comprise of a series of chapters,represented and receive the services from the state
some long, some short; all of which will inevitably end.to which they are entitled.
Life is fleeting, fragile, and ultimately, fatal. We exist,A single case could take up perhaps four hours a
briefly, between two eternities.month; many volunteers who have the time take
We can however add meaning - texture - to ourmultiple cases, however one case is all that matters
lives.to the children involved. You will receive extensive
By adding meaning we provide a purpose to ourtraining - online and in-person - in all aspects of the
existence and that is one of the best naturallaw and the intricacies involved in handling this
anti-depressants around. The secret of success, forrewarding work. You will also undergo a thorough
true self-fulfillment, for our slice of heaven on earth?criminal history and background check due to your
No matter your faith or belief it can be summed up inproximity to children.
the one sentence from biblical text so often quoted,A final note. As a Guardian you may the only person
"do unto others as you would to yourself." Helpin the world a child has to speak for them.
others. In doing so nature, the universe, G-d, will smileRemember that. And in the case of hospice, you
on you and your life will be become more filled withcould be the last person a dying person sees or feels
joy than you can ever imagine. Try it.before they leave this world.
Get your hands dirty. Planning, meeting and talkingAs 2009 rolls in, start giving and you'll start living.
are great for starters however the real reward is in