The Physical Illnesses Of Verbal Abuse And Domestic Violence

Migraines, irritable bowel syndrome, essentialgood.
hypertension, insomnia, chronic anxiety are just aHowever, here's where it's not. In the same way
few of the ongoing complaints of domestic abusethat our bodies are built to trigger this response, so
survivors. And it's not surprising.are we built to cycle down when the impeding
These conditions are ALL mediated by thedanger or perceived threat passes. And since our
sympathetic nervous system-a system perpetuallyphysiology can't distinguish the difference between
"on" for individuals whose lives are entangled inreal and perceived threat, we have the ability to
physical, emotional and verbal abuse.keep this stress response "on" such that complete
Stemming back to our caveman ancestors, wecycling down fails to occur.
inherited a physiology that is built to protect us fromThen when the next tiger comes our way, naturally
the perceived threat of impending danger. And whenwe are appropriately aroused, but this time the
present, sympathetic arousal occurs.excitation starts from an already elevated point of
For example, when the caveman saw a tiger, thearousal, thereby resulting in a higher-level stress
thought "tiger" registered, activating a limbic systemresponse.
response of "fear"...ultimately, resulting in anNow for a moment, let's envision our creating a habit,
adrenergic response that prepares the body forif you will, of not fully cycling down between each
"fight or flight." And with this, of course, mobilizingperceived threat-between each tiger crossing our
the proper body systems to deal with thepath. What happens?
circumstances at hand.Your body systems associated with the stress
Here's what happens: blood rushes to the core of theresponse remain "on" and at higher and higher levels
body and away from the periphery, fueling the coreof arousal over time with subsequent activation. This
organs, (heart and lungs) for this magnificentis what we call "chronic stress."
maneuver. Blood is pumped to the large muscleHere's the danger. When you keep these organ
groups to enable rapid exit or fierce fight.systems functioning as such eventually they show
Numerous other physiological changes occur. You'resymptoms of excess activation. This is the basic
getting the picture, correct? In a nutshell...etiology of stress related illnesses: migraine
1) Your cardiovascular system is aroused: increasedheadaches, muscle contraction headaches, irritable
heart rate, rise in blood pressure.bowel syndrome, essential hypertension, insomnia,
2) Your neuromuscular system is activated: increasedchronic anxiety.
muscle tension.If you are a domestic violence survivor suffering with
3) And your gastrointestinal system shuts off: dryany of these conditions, seek to cultivate habits that
mouth, build up of acidity in the gut, bowel andturn "off" the stress response. This will off-set
bladder relax.damage done by a pattern naturally inherent in a
This is sympathetic arousal; that is the activation ofcurrent or past life of constant criticism, verbal abuse,
the sympathetic nervous system. It is our body'sunpredictable partner rage, and ongoing caution,
response to impending danger. It's your survivaltrepidation and fear.
mechanism, your natural stress response. This is