| | | | | Rumor Monger: |
| What You Squabble About Voices: | | | | By inferring things, you threaten. Seeing that you |
| When you squabble, it can reflect deep | | | | sense a possible flaw on your side, you often talk in |
| characteristics, especially when considering that some | | | | the plural, such as, “we feel that you are |
| people love to fight, where others will avoid it like a | | | | wrong,” when there may be no one else around, |
| plague. | | | | or simply lie about it. In order to win you realize that |
| Historian: | | | | the strength of a group is stronger than the strength |
| You can remember the exact details and who did | | | | of an individual. |
| what and when it was done. You usually win because | | | | Telephone Confrontation: |
| most people have only an average memory. | | | | Avoiding to see your adversary, you can express |
| Irrational-Emotional: | | | | your wrath, feeling in command by having the ability |
| By threatening your adversary whether physically or | | | | to hang up. By not being threatened physically, you |
| emotionally, you gain the advantage even though the | | | | can voice your position and even heighten your |
| way you go about it is childish, winning is more | | | | decibels. |
| important than the means. | | | | Third Party: |
| “My Lawyer Will Be In Touch With You”: | | | | Having a script of being hurt, a third party ensures |
| Reflecting weakness and feeling a possible loss, | | | | someone fighting for you. The empathy brought |
| overhanging your adversary with the assistance of | | | | about reassures you of winning, even should you |
| others is consistent with the high regard you place on | | | | know that you are completely in the wrong. |
| trained individuals, especially when fighting for your | | | | Threat: |
| behalf. | | | | You want to feel the adrenaline moving by |
| Passive-Aggressive; Nonverbal: | | | | threatening, regardless of what your actual message |
| Paying no heed to that which you find nerve | | | | is. You fear that what you desire you might not |
| wracking, you believe yourself to be a calm and | | | | attain. When your adversary stands up to your |
| easygoing personality. What you actually are doing is | | | | threat, your being needy of others threatens you, |
| relating to that which you can be in command of. | | | | usually not possessing the desire or the energy to |
| Your adversary usually becomes so infuriated, he | | | | carry out the threat. |
| chooses the following:to remain bickering by himself, | | | | Verbal Attack: |
| or to knock you silly. | | | | Although the actual squabble might have started |
| Physical Attack: | | | | intellectually, sensing a possible loss in the |
| You dare not lose and because you are impetuous, | | | | discrepancy, by verbally attacking your opponent |
| besides being a nervous wreck, you will beat anyone | | | | sighting all the flaws, you are hopeful that in your |
| because you basically accuse all others for your own | | | | attack of him, he will succumb, because you are not |
| misgivings. | | | | able to attack his argument. |
| Rational-Emotive: | | | | Withdrawal: |
| By screaming at each other the parties wrap up their | | | | Silence is golden. Your uncommunicativeness is |
| emotions afterward. When the parties are similar | | | | brought about by avoiding all types of challenges. |
| intellectually and they are capable of taking control | | | | Although you may be boiling mad inside and have a |
| again, an excellent chance of winning on both sides | | | | skeptical nature, you are seen as a rather agreeable, |
| exist. | | | | enchanting personality, at least on the exterior. |
| Rational-Nonemotive: | | | | Writing Notes And Letters: |
| You love saying to your adversary, “don’t | | | | Owing to your giving more credence to the written |
| be angry.” You have a way in your squabbling to | | | | word rather than the spoken word, by jotting down |
| take control of the other by first calming him, and | | | | your thoughts, you envision having more command in |
| you often end up winning because of the sheer | | | | the confrontation. With reading your notes by |
| strength of your character, convincing your opponent | | | | projection, you assume your opponent will pay more |
| through sensible sparring. | | | | heed than if you would have spoken directly. |