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What Parents and Teachers should Know about Suicide in Adolescents and Young Adults

INTRODUCTIONSuicide is one of the commonestabsence  of  suicide  risk.
causes of death among young people. The
latest mean worldwide annual rates of suicide"Those problems weren't enough to commit
per 100,000 are 0.5 for females and 0.9 forsuicide over," is often said by people who
males among 5-14-year-olds, and 12.0 forknew a completed suicide. You cannot assume
females and 14.2 for males amongthat because you feel something is not worth
15-24-year-olds. Suicide is the sixth leadingbeing suicidal about, that the person you are
cause of death among children aged 5-14with feels the same way. It is not how bad
years, and the third leading cause of deaththe problem is, but how badly it's hurting
among all those 15-24 years old. In mostthe person who has it.2. Remember: suicidal
countries, males outnumber females in youthbehavior  is  a  cry  for  help.
suicide statistics. There are far more
suicidal attempts and gestures than actualMyth: "If someone is going to kill himself,
completed suicides. One epidemiological studynothing can stop him." The fact that a person
estimated that there were 23 suicidalis still alive is sufficient proof that part
gestures and attempts for every completedof him wants to remain alive. The suicidal
suicide. Though female teens are much moreperson is ambivalent - part of him wants to
likely to attempt suicide than males, malelive and part of him wants not so much death
teens are more likely to actually killas he wants the pain to end. It is the part
themselves. The suicide rate among youngthat wants to live that tells another "I feel
teens and young adults has increased by moresuicidal." If a suicidal person turns to you
than 300% in the last three decades.RISKit is likely that he believes that you are
FACTORS FOR SUICIDEContrary to popularmore caring, more informed about coping with
belief, suicide is not an impulsive act butmisfortune, and more willing to protect his
the result of a three-step process: aconfidentiality. No matter how negative the
previous history of problems is compounded bymanner and content of his talk, he is doing a
problems associated with adolescence;positive thing and has a positive view of
finally, a precipitating event, often a deathyou.3. Be willing to give and get help sooner
or the end of a meaningful relationship,rather  than  later.
triggers the suicide. The major, empirically
proven risk actors for suicide amongSuicide prevention is not a last minute
adolescents are detailed below.PERSONALactivity. Unfortunately, suicidal people are
CHARACTERISTICSPsychopathology:afraid that trying to get help may bring them
more pain: being told they are stupid,
More than 90% of youth suicides and aroundfoolish, sinful, or manipulative; rejection;
60% of younger adolescent suicide victimspunishment; suspension from school; written
have had at least one major psychiatricrecords of their condition; or involuntary
disorder. The most prevalent disorder incommitment. You need to do everything you can
adolescent suicide victims is depressiveto reduce pain, rather than increase or
disorders. Depression that seems to quicklyprolong it. Constructively involving yourself
disappear for no apparent reason is a causeon the side of life as early as possible will
for concern, and the early stages of recoveryreduce  the  risk  of  suicide.4.  Listen.
from depression can be a high risk period.
Substance abuse, conduct disorder,Give the person every opportunity to
posttraumatic stress disorder and panicunburden his troubles and ventilate his
attacks are the other disorders found to befeelings. You don't need to say much and
common in this population.Previous suicidethere are no magic words. If you are
attempts:concerned, your voice and manner will show
it. Give him relief from being alone with his
A history of prior suicide attempts is onepain; let him know you are glad he turned to
of the strongest predictors of completedyou. At times everyone feels sad, hurt, or
suicide, especially in boys. One quarter tohopeless. You know what that's like; share
one third of teen suicide victims have made ayour feelings. Let the child know he or she
previous suicide attempt.Cognitive andis not alone. Avoid arguments and advice
personality  factors:giving. If the child's words or actions scare
you, tell him or her. If you're worried or
Hopelessness, poor interpersonal problemdon't know what to do, say so.5. ASK: "Are
solving ability and aggressive impulsiveyou  having  thoughts  of  suicide?"
behaviour have been linked with
suicidality.Biological  factors:Myth: "Talking about it may give someone the
idea." People already have the idea; suicide
Some teens are at greater risk for suicideis constantly in the media. If you ask a
because of their biochemical makeup.despairing person this question you are doing
Abnormalities in the function of serotonin, aa good thing for them: you are showing him
neurotransmitter, have been associated withthat you care about him, that you take him
suicidal behaviour.FAMILYseriously, and that you are willing to let
CHARACTERISTICSFamily history of suicidalhim share his pain with you. You are giving
behaviour:him further opportunity to discharge pent up
and painful feelings. If the person is having
Teens who kill themselves have often had athoughts of suicide, find out how far along
close family member who attempted orhis ideation has progressed.6. If the person
committed  suicide.Parental psychopathology:is  acutely suicidal, do not leave him alone.
High rates of parental psychopathology,If the means are present, try to get rid of
particularly depression and substance abuse,them. Detoxify the school or home.7. Urge
have been found to be associated withprofessional  help.
completed suicide and suicidal ideation and
attempts in adolescents. Moreover, familyPersistence and patience may be needed to
cohesion has been reported to be a protectiveseek, engage and continue with as many
factor for suicidal behaviour amongoptions as possible. In any referral
adolescents.ADVERSE LIFEsituation, let the person know you care and
CIRCUMSTANCESStressful  life  events:want  to  maintain  contact.8.  No  secrets.
Life stressors such as interpersonal lossesIt is the part of the person that is afraid
and legal or disciplinary problems areof more pain that says "Don't tell anyone."
associated with completed suicide and suicideIt is the part that wants to stay alive that
attempts in adolescents. The anniversary of atells you about it. Respond to that part of
loss can also evoke a powerful desire tothe person and persistently seek out a mature
commit  suicide.Physical  abuse:and compassionate person with whom you can
review the situation. Distributing the
Childhood physical abuse has been found toanxieties and responsibilities of suicide
be associated with increased risk of suicideprevention makes it easier and much more
attempts in late adolescence and earlyeffective.Interventions with a suicidal
adulthood.SOCIOECONOMIC AND CONTEXTUALstudent:Schools should have a written
FACTORSSchool  and  work  problems:protocol for dealing with a student who shows
signs of suicidal or other dangerous
Difficulties in school, neither working norbehavior. The following steps may be
being in school, dropping out of high schooleffective in dealing with a student who
and not attending college pose significantexpresses active suicidal intent.1. Calm the
risks for completed suicide.Contagionimmediate crisis situation. Do not leave the
Imitation:suicidal student alone even for a minute. Ask
whether he or she is in possession of any
Teens are more likely to kill themselves ifpotentially dangerous objects or medications.
they have recently read, seen, or heard aboutIf the student has dangerous items on his
other suicide attempts. Evidence continues toperson, be calm and try to verbally persuade
amass from studies of suicide clusters andthe student to give them to you. Do not
the impact of the media, supporting theengage in a physical struggle to get the
existence of suicide contagion. The impact ofitems. Call administration or the designated
suicide stories on subsequent competedcrisis team. Escort the student away from
suicides appears to be greatest forother students to a safe place where the
teenagers.PREVENTION STRATEGIESYouth suicidecrisis team members can talk to him. Be sure
prevention strategies have primarily beenthat there is access to a telephone.2. The
implemented within three domains - school,crisis individuals then interview the student
community, and health are systems. Thisand determine the potential risk for suicide.
article reviews the school-based
programs.SCHOOL-BASED SUICIDE PREVENTIONa. If the student is holding on to dangerous
PROGRAMSSchool based suicide preventionitems, it is the highest risk situation.
programs include both curricula components toStaff should call an ambulance, the police
teach students about these warning signs andand the student's parents. Staff should try
what to do, as well as non-curriculato calm the student and ask for the dangerous
components such as peer groups, hot lines,items.
intervention services and parent training.
Prevention includes education efforts tob. If the student has no dangerous objects,
alert students and the community to thebut appears to be an immediate suicide risk,
problem of teen suicidal behavior.it would be considered a high-risk situation.
Intervention with a suicidal student is aimedIf the student is upset because of physical
at protecting and helping the student who isor sexual abuse, staff should notify the
currently in distress. Postvention occursappropriate school personnel and contact the
after there has been a suicide in the schoolpolice. If there is no evidence of abuse or
community. It attempts to help those affectedneglect, staff should contact parents and ask
by the recent suicide. In all cases it is athem to come in to pick up their child. Staff
good idea to have a clear plan in place inshould inform them fully about the situation
advance. It should involve staff members andand strongly encourage them to take their
administration. There should be clearchild to a mental health professional for an
protocols and clear lines of communication.evaluation. The team should give the parents
Careful planning can make interventions morea list of telephone numbers of crisis
organized, and effective.The goals of schoolclinics. If the school is unable to contact
based suicide prevention programs are to:*parents, and if the police cannot intervene,
Increase  awarenessdesignated staff should take the student to a
nearby  emergency  room.
* Promote identification of students at high
risk  of  suicide  and  suicide  attemptsc. If the student has had suicidal thoughts
but does not seem likely to hurt himself in
* Provide knowledge about the behavioralthe near future, the risk is more moderate.
characteristics ("warning signs") of teens atIf abuse or neglect is involved, staff should
risk  for  suicide.proceed as in the high-risk process. If there
is no evidence of abuse, the parents should
* Provide information to students, teachersstill be called to come in. They should be
and parents on the availability of mentalencouraged to take their child for an
health  resourcesimmediate  evaluation.
* Enhance the coping abilities ofd. Follow-Up: It is important to document
teenagersEducation:all actions taken. The crisis team may meet
after the incident to go over the situation.
Education may be done in a health class, byFriends of the student should be given some
the school counselor or outside speakers.limited information about what has
Education should address the factors thattranspired. Designated staff should follow up
make individuals more vulnerable to suicidalwith the student and parents to determine
thoughts. Education regarding the ill effectswhether the student is receiving appropriate
of drug and alcohol abuse would be useful.mental health services. Follow-up is crucial,
PTA meetings can be used to educate parentsbecause most suicides occur within three
about depression and suicidal behavior.months of the beginning of improvement in
Parents should be educated about the risk ofdepressive symptoms, when the youth has the
unsecured firearms in the home. Outsideenergy to carry out plans conceived earlier.
mental health professionals can discuss theirRegularly scheduled supportive counseling
programs so that students can see that theseshould be provided to teach the youth coping
individuals are approachable. Education onmechanisms for managing stress accompanying a
the following topics will be useful:Warninglife crisis, as well as day-to-day
signs of suicide:* Preoccupation with deathstress.Role of the teachers:Teachers play an
and  dyingespecially important part in prevention,
because they spend so much time with their
*  Signs  of  depressionstudents. Along with holding parent-teacher
meetings to discuss teenage suicide
*  Taking  excessive  risksprevention, teachers can form referral
networks with mental health professionals.
*  Increased  drug  useThey can increase student awareness by
introducing the topic in health classes.Some
*  The  verbalizing  of  suicide  threatsschools have automatic expulsion policies for
students who engage in illegal or violent
* The giving away of prized personalbehavior. It is important to remember that
possessionsteens who are violent or abuse drugs may be
at increased risk for suicide. If someone is
* The collection and discussion ofexpelled, the school should attempt to help
information  on  suicide  methodsthe parents arrange immediate and possibly
intensive psychiatric and behavioral
* The expression of hopelessness,interventions.Role of the peers:Peers are
helplessness, and anger at oneself or thecrucial to suicide prevention. According to
worldone survey, 93% of the students reported that
they would turn to a friend before a teacher,
* Themes of death or depression evident inparent or spiritual guide in a time of
conversation, written expressions, readingcrisis. Peers can form student support groups
selections,  or  artworkand, once educated themselves, can train
others to be peer counselors.Adolescents
* The scratching or marking of the body, oroften will try to support a suicidal friend
other  self-destructive  actsby themselves. They may feel bound to
secrecy, or feel that adults are not to be
* Acute personality changes, unusualtrusted, and this may delay needed treatment.
withdrawal,  aggressiveness,  or  moodinessIdeally, a teenage friend should listen to
the suicidal youth in an empathic way, but
* Sudden dramatic decline or improvement inthen insist on getting the youth immediate
academic performance, chronic truancy oradult and professional help.Role of the
tardiness,  or  running  awayparents:Parents need to be as open and as
attentive as possible to their adolescent
* Physical symptoms such as eatingchildren's difficulties. The most effective
disturbances, sleeplessness or excessivesuicide prevention technique parents can
sleeping, chronic headaches or stomachaches,exercise is to maintain open lines of
menstrual irregularities, apatheticcommunication with their children. Sometimes
appearanceSudden changes in behavior that areteens hide their problems, not wanting to
significant, last for a long time, and areburden the people they love. It is extremely
apparent in all or most areas of his or herimportant to assure teens that they can share
life (pervasive) are more specific thantheir troubles, and gain support in the
presence of isolated signs. However, itprocess. Parents are encouraged to talk about
should be noted that many completed suicidessuicide with their children, and to educate
had only a few of the conditions listedthemselves by attending parent-teacher or
above, and that all indications ofparent-counselor education sessions and from
suicidality need to be taken seriously in anearby libraries or the internet. Once
one person to another person situation.Signstrained, parents can help to staff a crisis
of depression in teens:* Sad, anxious orhotline in their community. Parents also need
"empty"  moodto be involved in the counseling process if a
teen has suicidal tendencies. These
*  Declining  school  performanceactivities may both alleviate parents' fears
of the unknown and assure teenagers that
* Loss of pleasure/interest in social andtheir parents care.Postvention/crisis
sports  activitiesintervention:The rationale for school-based
postvention/crisis intervention is that a
*  Sleeping  too  much  or  too  littletimely response to a suicide is likely to
reduce subsequent morbidity and mortality in
* Changes in weight or appetiteFactorsfellow students, including suicidality, the
associated with repeated self harm:* Previousonset and exacerbation of psychiatric
self  harmdisorders, and other symptoms related to
pathological bereavement.The school should
*  Personality  disturbancehave plans in place to deal with a suicide or
other major crisis in the school community.
*  DepressionThe administration or the designated
individual should try to get as much
*  Alcohol  or  drug  misuseinformation as soon as possible. He or she
should meet with teachers and staff to inform
* Chronic psychosocial problems andthem of the suicide. The teachers or other
behaviour  disturbancestaff should inform each class of students.
It is important that all of the students hear
*  Disturbed  family  relationshipsthe same thing. After they have been
informed, they should have the opportunity to
*  Alcohol  dependence  in  the  familytalk about it. Those who wish should be
excused to talk to crisis counselors. The
*  Social  isolationschool should have extra counselors available
for students and staff who need to talk.
* Poor school recordHow to support a studentStudents who appear to be the most severely
with suicidal thoughts and a lowaffected may need parental notification and
self-esteem?* Listen actively. Teachoutside mental health referrals. Rumor
problem-solving  skillscontrol is important. There should be a
designated person to deal with the media.
* Encourage positive thinking. Instead ofRefusing to talk to the media takes away the
saying that he cannot do something, he shouldchance to influence what information will be
say  that  he  will  try.in the news. One should remind the media
reporters that sensational reporting has the
* Help the student write a list of his orpotential for increasing a contagion effect.
her  good  qualities.They should ask the media to be careful in
how they report the incident. Media should
* Give the student opportunities foravoid repeated or sensationalistic coverage.
success.  Give  as  much  praise  as possibleThey should not provide enough details of the
suicide method to create a "how to"
* Help the student set up a step-by-stepdescription. They should try not to glorify
plan  to  achieve  his  goals.the individual or present the suicidal
behavior as a legitimate strategy for coping
* Talk to the family so that they canwith difficult situations.It is imperative
understand  how  the  student  is  feeling.for crisis interventions to be well planned
and evaluated; otherwise, not only may they
* He or she might benefit from assertivenessnot help survivors, but they may potentially
trainingexacerbate problems through the induction of
imitation.CONCLUSIONSuicide attempts and
* Helping others may raise one'scompleted suicides among adolescents are
self-esteem.problems of increasing significance. School
staff, parents, and health professionals
* Get the student involved in positiveshould be sensitized about the risk factors
activities  in  school  or  in the community.and warning signs of suicide, and about the
ways to deal with suicidal
* If appropriate, involve the student'sadolescents.FURTHER READING* Gould, M.S.,
religious  community.Greenberg, T., Velting, D.M. & Shaffer, D.
(2003) Youth suicide risk and preventive
* Make up a contract with rewards forinterventions: a review of the past 10 years.
positive and new behaviors.What can be doneJournal of the American Academy of Child and
to help someone who may be suicidal?:1. TakeAdolescent  Psychiatry,  42,  4,  386-405.
it  seriously.
* Hawton, K. & James, A. (2005) Suicide and
Myth: "The people who talk about it don't dodeliberate self harm in young people. British
it." Studies have found that more than 75% ofMedical  Journal,  330,  891-894.
all completed suicides did things in the few
weeks or months prior to their deaths to*
indicate to others that they were in deep
despair. Anyone expressing suicidal feelings*
needs  immediate  attention.
* Shahul Ameen, M.D., is a psychiatrist
Myth: "Anyone who tries to kill himself hasbased  in  Ranchi,  India.
got to be crazy." Perhaps 10% of all suicidal
people are psychotic or have delusionalHe edits (a portal for mental health
beliefs about reality. Most suicidal peopleprofessionals)  and
suffer from the recognized mental illness of
depression; but many depressed people(a portal on mental health for the
adequately manage their daily affairs. Theconsumers).
absence of "craziness" does not mean the



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