What Parents and Teachers should Know about Suicide in Adolescents and Young Adults

INTRODUCTIONSuicide is one of the commoneststop him." The fact that a person is still alive is
causes of death among young people. The latestsufficient proof that part of him wants to remain
mean worldwide annual rates of suicide per 100,000alive. The suicidal person is ambivalent - part of him
are 0.5 for females and 0.9 for males amongwants to live and part of him wants not so much
5-14-year-olds, and 12.0 for females and 14.2 fordeath as he wants the pain to end. It is the part that
males among 15-24-year-olds. Suicide is the sixthwants to live that tells another "I feel suicidal." If a
leading cause of death among children aged 5-14suicidal person turns to you it is likely that he believes
years, and the third leading cause of death among allthat you are more caring, more informed about
those 15-24 years old. In most countries, malescoping with misfortune, and more willing to protect
outnumber females in youth suicide statistics. Therehis confidentiality. No matter how negative the
are far more suicidal attempts and gestures thanmanner and content of his talk, he is doing a positive
actual completed suicides. One epidemiological studything and has a positive view of you.3. Be willing to
estimated that there were 23 suicidal gestures andgive and get help sooner rather than later.
attempts for every completed suicide. ThoughSuicide prevention is not a last minute activity.
female teens are much more likely to attempt suicideUnfortunately, suicidal people are afraid that trying to
than males, male teens are more likely to actually killget help may bring them more pain: being told they
themselves. The suicide rate among young teens andare stupid, foolish, sinful, or manipulative; rejection;
young adults has increased by more than 300% inpunishment; suspension from school; written records
the last three decades.RISK FACTORS FORof their condition; or involuntary commitment. You
SUICIDEContrary to popular belief, suicide is not anneed to do everything you can to reduce pain, rather
impulsive act but the result of a three-step process:than increase or prolong it. Constructively involving
a previous history of problems is compounded byyourself on the side of life as early as possible will
problems associated with adolescence; finally, areduce the risk of suicide.4. Listen.
precipitating event, often a death or the end of aGive the person every opportunity to unburden his
meaningful relationship, triggers the suicide. Thetroubles and ventilate his feelings. You don't need to
major, empirically proven risk actors for suicidesay much and there are no magic words. If you are
among adolescents are detailed below.PERSONALconcerned, your voice and manner will show it. Give
CHARACTERISTICSPsychopathology:him relief from being alone with his pain; let him know
More than 90% of youth suicides and around 60%you are glad he turned to you. At times everyone
of younger adolescent suicide victims have had atfeels sad, hurt, or hopeless. You know what that's
least one major psychiatric disorder. The mostlike; share your feelings. Let the child know he or she
prevalent disorder in adolescent suicide victims isis not alone. Avoid arguments and advice giving. If
depressive disorders. Depression that seems tothe child's words or actions scare you, tell him or her.
quickly disappear for no apparent reason is a causeIf you're worried or don't know what to do, say so.5.
for concern, and the early stages of recovery fromASK: "Are you having thoughts of suicide?"
depression can be a high risk period. SubstanceMyth: "Talking about it may give someone the idea."
abuse, conduct disorder, posttraumatic stressPeople already have the idea; suicide is constantly in
disorder and panic attacks are the other disordersthe media. If you ask a despairing person this
found to be common in this population.Previousquestion you are doing a good thing for them: you
suicide attempts:are showing him that you care about him, that you
A history of prior suicide attempts is one of thetake him seriously, and that you are willing to let him
strongest predictors of completed suicide, especiallyshare his pain with you. You are giving him further
in boys. One quarter to one third of teen suicideopportunity to discharge pent up and painful feelings.
victims have made a previous suicideIf the person is having thoughts of suicide, find out
attempt.Cognitive and personality factors:how far along his ideation has progressed.6. If the
Hopelessness, poor interpersonal problem solvingperson is acutely suicidal, do not leave him alone.
ability and aggressive impulsive behaviour have beenIf the means are present, try to get rid of them.
linked with suicidality.Biological factors:Detoxify the school or home.7. Urge professional help.
Some teens are at greater risk for suicide becausePersistence and patience may be needed to seek,
of their biochemical makeup. Abnormalities in theengage and continue with as many options as
function of serotonin, a neurotransmitter, have beenpossible. In any referral situation, let the person know
associated with suicidal behaviour.FAMILYyou care and want to maintain contact.8. No secrets.
CHARACTERISTICSFamily history of suicidalIt is the part of the person that is afraid of more
behaviour:pain that says "Don't tell anyone." It is the part that
Teens who kill themselves have often had a closewants to stay alive that tells you about it. Respond
family member who attempted or committedto that part of the person and persistently seek out
suicide.Parental psychopathology:a mature and compassionate person with whom you
High rates of parental psychopathology, particularlycan review the situation. Distributing the anxieties and
depression and substance abuse, have been found toresponsibilities of suicide prevention makes it easier
be associated with completed suicide and suicidaland much more effective.Interventions with a suicidal
ideation and attempts in adolescents. Moreover,student:Schools should have a written protocol for
family cohesion has been reported to be a protectivedealing with a student who shows signs of suicidal or
factor for suicidal behaviour amongother dangerous behavior. The following steps may
adolescents.ADVERSE LIFEbe effective in dealing with a student who expresses
CIRCUMSTANCESStressful life events:active suicidal intent.1. Calm the immediate crisis
Life stressors such as interpersonal losses and legalsituation. Do not leave the suicidal student alone even
or disciplinary problems are associated withfor a minute. Ask whether he or she is in possession
completed suicide and suicide attempts in adolescents.of any potentially dangerous objects or medications.
The anniversary of a loss can also evoke a powerfulIf the student has dangerous items on his person, be
desire to commit suicide.Physical abuse:calm and try to verbally persuade the student to
Childhood physical abuse has been found to begive them to you. Do not engage in a physical
associated with increased risk of suicide attempts instruggle to get the items. Call administration or the
late adolescence and earlydesignated crisis team. Escort the student away from
adulthood.SOCIOECONOMIC AND CONTEXTUALother students to a safe place where the crisis team
FACTORSSchool and work problems:members can talk to him. Be sure that there is
Difficulties in school, neither working nor being inaccess to a telephone.2. The crisis individuals then
school, dropping out of high school and not attendinginterview the student and determine the potential
college pose significant risks for completedrisk for suicide.
suicide.Contagion/Imitation:a. If the student is holding on to dangerous items, it
Teens are more likely to kill themselves if they haveis the highest risk situation. Staff should call an
recently read, seen, or heard about other suicideambulance, the police and the student's parents. Staff
attempts. Evidence continues to amass from studiesshould try to calm the student and ask for the
of suicide clusters and the impact of the media,dangerous items.
supporting the existence of suicide contagion. Theb. If the student has no dangerous objects, but
impact of suicide stories on subsequent competedappears to be an immediate suicide risk, it would be
suicides appears to be greatest forconsidered a high-risk situation. If the student is upset
teenagers.PREVENTION STRATEGIESYouth suicidebecause of physical or sexual abuse, staff should
prevention strategies have primarily beennotify the appropriate school personnel and contact
implemented within three domains - school,the police. If there is no evidence of abuse or
community, and health are systems. This articleneglect, staff should contact parents and ask them
reviews the school-based programs.SCHOOL-BASEDto come in to pick up their child. Staff should inform
SUICIDE PREVENTION PROGRAMSSchool basedthem fully about the situation and strongly encourage
suicide prevention programs include both curriculathem to take their child to a mental health
components to teach students about these warningprofessional for an evaluation. The team should give
signs and what to do, as well as non-curriculathe parents a list of telephone numbers of crisis
components such as peer groups, hot lines,clinics. If the school is unable to contact parents, and
intervention services and parent training. Preventionif the police cannot intervene, designated staff should
includes education efforts to alert students and thetake the student to a nearby emergency room.
community to the problem of teen suicidal behavior.c. If the student has had suicidal thoughts but does
Intervention with a suicidal student is aimed atnot seem likely to hurt himself in the near future, the
protecting and helping the student who is currently inrisk is more moderate. If abuse or neglect is involved,
distress. Postvention occurs after there has been astaff should proceed as in the high-risk process. If
suicide in the school community. It attempts to helpthere is no evidence of abuse, the parents should still
those affected by the recent suicide. In all cases it isbe called to come in. They should be encouraged to
a good idea to have a clear plan in place in advance.take their child for an immediate evaluation.
It should involve staff members and administration.d. Follow-Up: It is important to document all actions
There should be clear protocols and clear lines oftaken. The crisis team may meet after the incident
communication. Careful planning can maketo go over the situation. Friends of the student
interventions more organized, and effective.The goalsshould be given some limited information about what
of school based suicide prevention programs are to:*has transpired. Designated staff should follow up with
Increase awarenessthe student and parents to determine whether the
* Promote identification of students at high risk ofstudent is receiving appropriate mental health
suicide and suicide attemptsservices. Follow-up is crucial, because most suicides
* Provide knowledge about the behavioraloccur within three months of the beginning of
characteristics ("warning signs") of teens at risk forimprovement in depressive symptoms, when the
suicide.youth has the energy to carry out plans conceived
* Provide information to students, teachers andearlier. Regularly scheduled supportive counseling
parents on the availability of mental health resourcesshould be provided to teach the youth coping
* Enhance the coping abilities of teenagersEducation:mechanisms for managing stress accompanying a life
Education may be done in a health class, by thecrisis, as well as day-to-day stress.Role of the
school counselor or outside speakers. Educationteachers:Teachers play an especially important part in
should address the factors that make individualsprevention, because they spend so much time with
more vulnerable to suicidal thoughts. Educationtheir students. Along with holding parent-teacher
regarding the ill effects of drug and alcohol abusemeetings to discuss teenage suicide prevention,
would be useful. PTA meetings can be used toteachers can form referral networks with mental
educate parents about depression and suicidalhealth professionals. They can increase student
behavior. Parents should be educated about the riskawareness by introducing the topic in health
of unsecured firearms in the home. Outside mentalclasses.Some schools have automatic expulsion
health professionals can discuss their programs sopolicies for students who engage in illegal or violent
that students can see that these individuals arebehavior. It is important to remember that teens
approachable. Education on the following topics will bewho are violent or abuse drugs may be at increased
useful:Warning signs of suicide:* Preoccupation withrisk for suicide. If someone is expelled, the school
death and dyingshould attempt to help the parents arrange
* Signs of depressionimmediate and possibly intensive psychiatric and
* Taking excessive risksbehavioral interventions.Role of the peers:Peers are
* Increased drug usecrucial to suicide prevention. According to one survey,
* The verbalizing of suicide threats93% of the students reported that they would turn
* The giving away of prized personal possessionsto a friend before a teacher, parent or spiritual guide
* The collection and discussion of information onin a time of crisis. Peers can form student support
suicide methodsgroups and, once educated themselves, can train
* The expression of hopelessness, helplessness, andothers to be peer counselors.Adolescents often will
anger at oneself or the worldtry to support a suicidal friend by themselves. They
* Themes of death or depression evident inmay feel bound to secrecy, or feel that adults are
conversation, written expressions, reading selections,not to be trusted, and this may delay needed
or artworktreatment. Ideally, a teenage friend should listen to
* The scratching or marking of the body, or otherthe suicidal youth in an empathic way, but then insist
self-destructive actson getting the youth immediate adult and professional
* Acute personality changes, unusual withdrawal,help.Role of the parents:Parents need to be as open
aggressiveness, or moodinessand as attentive as possible to their adolescent
* Sudden dramatic decline or improvement inchildren's difficulties. The most effective suicide
academic performance, chronic truancy or tardiness,prevention technique parents can exercise is to
or running awaymaintain open lines of communication with their
* Physical symptoms such as eating disturbances,children. Sometimes teens hide their problems, not
sleeplessness or excessive sleeping, chronicwanting to burden the people they love. It is
headaches or stomachaches, menstrual irregularities,extremely important to assure teens that they can
apathetic appearanceSudden changes in behavior thatshare their troubles, and gain support in the process.
are significant, last for a long time, and are apparentParents are encouraged to talk about suicide with
in all or most areas of his or her life (pervasive) aretheir children, and to educate themselves by
more specific than presence of isolated signs.attending parent-teacher or parent-counselor
However, it should be noted that many completededucation sessions and from nearby libraries or the
suicides had only a few of the conditions listedinternet. Once trained, parents can help to staff a
above, and that all indications of suicidality need to becrisis hotline in their community. Parents also need to
taken seriously in a one person to another personbe involved in the counseling process if a teen has
situation.Signs of depression in teens:* Sad, anxious orsuicidal tendencies. These activities may both alleviate
"empty" moodparents' fears of the unknown and assure teenagers
* Declining school performancethat their parents care.Postvention/crisis
* Loss of pleasure/interest in social and sportsintervention:The rationale for school-based
activitiespostvention/crisis intervention is that a timely
* Sleeping too much or too littleresponse to a suicide is likely to reduce subsequent
* Changes in weight or appetiteFactors associatedmorbidity and mortality in fellow students, including
with repeated self harm:* Previous self harmsuicidality, the onset and exacerbation of psychiatric
* Personality disturbancedisorders, and other symptoms related to pathological
* Depressionbereavement.The school should have plans in place to
* Alcohol or drug misusedeal with a suicide or other major crisis in the school
* Chronic psychosocial problems and behaviourcommunity. The administration or the designated
disturbanceindividual should try to get as much information as
* Disturbed family relationshipssoon as possible. He or she should meet with
* Alcohol dependence in the familyteachers and staff to inform them of the suicide.
* Social isolationThe teachers or other staff should inform each class
* Poor school recordHow to support a student withof students. It is important that all of the students
suicidal thoughts and a low self-esteem?* Listenhear the same thing. After they have been informed,
actively. Teach problem-solving skillsthey should have the opportunity to talk about it.
* Encourage positive thinking. Instead of saying thatThose who wish should be excused to talk to crisis
he cannot do something, he should say that he willcounselors. The school should have extra counselors
try.available for students and staff who need to talk.
* Help the student write a list of his or her goodStudents who appear to be the most severely
qualities.affected may need parental notification and outside
* Give the student opportunities for success. Givemental health referrals. Rumor control is important.
as much praise as possibleThere should be a designated person to deal with the
* Help the student set up a step-by-step plan tomedia. Refusing to talk to the media takes away the
achieve his goals.chance to influence what information will be in the
* Talk to the family so that they can understandnews. One should remind the media reporters that
how the student is feeling.sensational reporting has the potential for increasing a
* He or she might benefit from assertivenesscontagion effect. They should ask the media to be
trainingcareful in how they report the incident. Media should
* Helping others may raise one's self-esteem.avoid repeated or sensationalistic coverage. They
* Get the student involved in positive activities inshould not provide enough details of the suicide
school or in the community.method to create a "how to" description. They
* If appropriate, involve the student's religiousshould try not to glorify the individual or present the
community.suicidal behavior as a legitimate strategy for coping
* Make up a contract with rewards for positive andwith difficult situations.It is imperative for crisis
new behaviors.What can be done to help someoneinterventions to be well planned and evaluated;
who may be suicidal?:1. Take it seriously.otherwise, not only may they not help survivors, but
Myth: "The people who talk about it don't do it."they may potentially exacerbate problems through
Studies have found that more than 75% of allthe induction of imitation.CONCLUSIONSuicide
completed suicides did things in the few weeks orattempts and completed suicides among adolescents
months prior to their deaths to indicate to othersare problems of increasing significance. School staff,
that they were in deep despair. Anyone expressingparents, and health professionals should be sensitized
suicidal feelings needs immediate attention.about the risk factors and warning signs of suicide,
Myth: "Anyone who tries to kill himself has got to beand about the ways to deal with suicidal
crazy." Perhaps 10% of all suicidal people areadolescents.FURTHER READING* Gould, M.S.,
psychotic or have delusional beliefs about reality. MostGreenberg, T., Velting, D.M. & Shaffer, D. (2003)
suicidal people suffer from the recognized mentalYouth suicide risk and preventive interventions: a
illness of depression; but many depressed peoplereview of the past 10 years. Journal of the American
adequately manage their daily affairs. The absence ofAcademy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 42, 4,
"craziness" does not mean the absence of suicide386-405.
risk.* Hawton, K. & James, A. (2005) Suicide and
"Those problems weren't enough to commit suicidedeliberate self harm in young people. British Medical
over," is often said by people who knew aJournal, 330, 891-894.
completed suicide. You cannot assume that because*
you feel something is not worth being suicidal about,*
that the person you are with feels the same way. It* Shahul Ameen, M.D., is a psychiatrist based in
is not how bad the problem is, but how badly it'sRanchi, India.
hurting the person who has it.2. Remember: suicidalHe edits (a portal for mental health professionals)
behavior is a cry for help.and
Myth: "If someone is going to kill himself, nothing can(a portal on mental health for the consumers).