| Divorce nowadays is becoming very common | | | | polite and caring and leave them free for pursuing |
| especially among the Western world. In these | | | | their own interests. Women who understand this |
| countries, according to statistics, every second | | | | need of men and give them enough freedom are |
| marriage is today ending up in divorce. Moreover, the | | | | successful in making their marriage happy and |
| surprising fact is that more than 70 percent divorce | | | | contented, while relationships where the wife is |
| petitions are actually filed by women. This shows that | | | | obsessed with controlling men and children do not |
| women feel more dissatisfied in their marriages than | | | | usually last long. |
| men. | | | | Inability to Conceive |
| Going for divorce can be due to many reasons such | | | | Every man wants that he should have his own |
| as financial problems, infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction, | | | | children to carry forward his name and lineage. The |
| physical and emotional abuse and drug use and | | | | urge to procreate is very strong among men. They |
| alcoholism. | | | | therefore want women who are fertile and can give |
| What are Men Looking for in a Marriage? | | | | them healthy babies. This desire to have children is |
| It has been seen that compared to women, men are | | | | one of the major reasons why men want to marry. |
| generally more satisfied and happier with their | | | | Men are looking for life partners who are attractive |
| marriage. But what kind of a marriage partner are | | | | and give the appearance of robust health, which they |
| they looking for? Men want someone who is bubbly, | | | | take as a sign of high fertility. Fatherhood has its |
| has positive attitude for life and can generate a | | | | own joys and men do not want to be deprived of |
| cheerful atmosphere at home. | | | | the simple pleasures of bringing up their own children |
| It is a proven fact that women play a major role in | | | | and moulding them into successful adults. Infertility |
| creating a positive and happy ambience in the house. | | | | among women is thus another important factor |
| Men like optimistic and not-too-demanding or | | | | which can make men to seek divorce and look for |
| dominating life partner, somebody who can give | | | | other partners who can procreate and help them in |
| them their own space and generally has a positive | | | | starting a family. |
| attitude toward life's challenges. | | | | Sexual Coldness |
| Men file for divorce when they are stuck with a | | | | Sex is a basic human want and plays a very |
| spouse who is too obsessive and a control freak and | | | | important role in a man's life. A good sex life |
| who is always complaining about their behaviour in | | | | strengthens the relationship between husband and |
| front of others and frequently insulting them. | | | | wife and makes their marriage happy. Regular sex |
| Nitpicking and Criticism | | | | helps in making the partners more intimate and caring |
| Men are very irritated by women who are always | | | | towards each other. |
| finding faults in their behaviour. This type of attitude | | | | Sex has many benefits, both physical and |
| in the long run has a devastating effect on the | | | | psychological. Married people with a good sex life feel |
| marriage. | | | | better about themselves. If their wife has absolutely |
| Men generally have a great emotional need to be | | | | no interest is sexually cold toward them, then there |
| taken care of by women. They generally reveal their | | | | is bound to be a problem in marriage. If there is |
| innermost thoughts to them alone, not to their male | | | | sexual incompatibility and the partners do not feel like |
| friends. Men want somebody to take care of them | | | | having sex with each other regularly, then the |
| and to love them. If they have a life partner who is | | | | relationship often ends in divorce. |
| full of criticism all the time, then it generally leads to | | | | Infidelity |
| divorce. | | | | There are today many opportunities to have |
| Control-freaks | | | | extra-marital affairs due to modern lifestyle. Indeed, |
| Women who are control freaks and who want to | | | | infidelity has in recent decades emerged as one of |
| dominate others are not liked by men. All men want | | | | the leading causes of divorce. No man can tolerate |
| some personal space for themselves and be their | | | | his wife having an affair or sexual relations with |
| own masters. They do not want to be dominated by | | | | another man. It is betrayal of trust and destroys the |
| their wives and explain to them their every little | | | | very foundation of marriage. Very few marital |
| action and expense. | | | | relationships are able to withstand an episode of |
| Generally, they look for women who are gentle, | | | | infidelity. |