| Divorce nowadays is becoming very common | | | | Generally, they look for women who are |
| especially among the Western world. In these | | | | gentle, polite and caring and leave them free |
| countries, according to statistics, every | | | | for pursuing their own interests. Women who |
| second marriage is today ending up in | | | | understand this need of men and give them |
| divorce. Moreover, the surprising fact is | | | | enough freedom are successful in making their |
| that more than 70 percent divorce petitions | | | | marriage happy and contented, while |
| are actually filed by women. This shows that | | | | relationships where the wife is obsessed with |
| women feel more dissatisfied in their | | | | controlling men and children do not usually |
| marriages than men. | | | | last long. |
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| Going for divorce can be due to many reasons | | | | Inability to Conceive |
| such as financial problems, infidelity, | | | | |
| sexual dissatisfaction, physical and | | | | Every man wants that he should have his own |
| emotional abuse and drug use and alcoholism. | | | | children to carry forward his name and |
| | | | lineage. The urge to procreate is very strong |
| What are Men Looking for in a Marriage? | | | | among men. They therefore want women who are |
| | | | fertile and can give them healthy babies. |
| It has been seen that compared to women, men | | | | This desire to have children is one of the |
| are generally more satisfied and happier with | | | | major reasons why men want to marry. |
| their marriage. But what kind of a marriage | | | | |
| partner are they looking for? Men want | | | | Men are looking for life partners who are |
| someone who is bubbly, has positive attitude | | | | attractive and give the appearance of robust |
| for life and can generate a cheerful | | | | health, which they take as a sign of high |
| atmosphere at home. | | | | fertility. Fatherhood has its own joys and |
| | | | men do not want to be deprived of the simple |
| It is a proven fact that women play a major | | | | pleasures of bringing up their own children |
| role in creating a positive and happy | | | | and moulding them into successful adults. |
| ambience in the house. Men like optimistic | | | | Infertility among women is thus another |
| and not-too-demanding or dominating life | | | | important factor which can make men to seek |
| partner, somebody who can give them their own | | | | divorce and look for other partners who can |
| space and generally has a positive attitude | | | | procreate and help them in starting a family. |
| toward life's challenges. | | | | |
| | | | Sexual Coldness |
| Men file for divorce when they are stuck with | | | | |
| a spouse who is too obsessive and a control | | | | Sex is a basic human want and plays a very |
| freak and who is always complaining about | | | | important role in a man's life. A good sex |
| their behaviour in front of others and | | | | life strengthens the relationship between |
| frequently insulting them. | | | | husband and wife and makes their marriage |
| | | | happy. Regular sex helps in making the |
| Nitpicking and Criticism | | | | partners more intimate and caring towards |
| | | | each other. |
| Men are very irritated by women who are | | | | |
| always finding faults in their behaviour. | | | | Sex has many benefits, both physical and |
| This type of attitude in the long run has a | | | | psychological. Married people with a good sex |
| devastating effect on the marriage. | | | | life feel better about themselves. If their |
| | | | wife has absolutely no interest is sexually |
| Men generally have a great emotional need to | | | | cold toward them, then there is bound to be a |
| be taken care of by women. They generally | | | | problem in marriage. If there is sexual |
| reveal their innermost thoughts to them | | | | incompatibility and the partners do not feel |
| alone, not to their male friends. Men want | | | | like having sex with each other regularly, |
| somebody to take care of them and to love | | | | then the relationship often ends in divorce. |
| them. If they have a life partner who is full | | | | |
| of criticism all the time, then it generally | | | | Infidelity |
| leads to divorce. | | | | |
| | | | There are today many opportunities to have |
| Control-freaks | | | | extra-marital affairs due to modern |
| | | | lifestyle. Indeed, infidelity has in recent |
| Women who are control freaks and who want to | | | | decades emerged as one of the leading causes |
| dominate others are not liked by men. All men | | | | of divorce. No man can tolerate his wife |
| want some personal space for themselves and | | | | having an affair or sexual relations with |
| be their own masters. They do not want to be | | | | another man. It is betrayal of trust and |
| dominated by their wives and explain to them | | | | destroys the very foundation of marriage. |
| their every little action and expense. | | | | Very few marital relationships are able to |
| | | | withstand an episode of infidelity. |