Children in Need, not Misdeed

In the Philippines, there are more than 36 millionin criminal behavior as juveniles and adults than others.
people under 19 years old who are living in utterlyAlthough it is said that the most important
inhuman conditions. About a million and a half childrenrelationship for all beings is that with their parents or
are estimated to live on the streets. They survive bywith their families, child maltreatment often starts at
begging for food and through petty theft. In spite ofhome. Unfortunately, an alarming number of parents
laws against child labor, more than three and a halfdo not understand the importance of the parent-child
million children from 5 to 17 years old work underrelationship. They are often too young or unprepared
grueling conditions. The data regarding child abuse andfor such responsibility. Their inability to commit to
neglect in the Philippines are considered to be belowgood parenting techniques causes serious detriment
the actual figures since the current statistics onlyto the lives and well being of their children.
reflect reported cases of abuse.Children who have been maltreated are usually
Recently, a survey by the Department of Socialunwilling or unable to reveal their situation to
Welfare and Development (DSWD) reflected asomeone because of parental threats, or a feeling of
sudden increase in the number of children thatloyalty to the family. For children who are in school,
resulted from increased awareness and reporting inwhile carefully asking a child may help to unearth
the community. Most of these children in this surveydetails of maltreatment, teachers need to be aware
were victims of child abuse and neglect, also knownof non-verbal ways in which the message of abuse
as "child maltreatment." Child maltreatment is amay be communicated. The presence of one
behavior toward a child that is outside the norms ofindicator alone does not necessarily mean that
conduct and entails substantial risk of causing physicalmaltreatment has occurred. If there are a number of
or emotional harm. Child maltreatment can be a singleindicators, then immediate counseling is needed for
incident, but it is usually a pattern of behavior thatthe child. It is the process by which a professional
takes place over time. There are four types ofhelps a person cope with mental or emotional
recognized maltreatment. These are physical abuse,distress, and understand and solve personal problems
sexual abuse, emotional abuse (psychological abuse),is called counseling.
and neglect.Individual and group counseling sessions usually take
The causes of child maltreatment are varied and nottwo years or even longer. The goal of undoing
well understood. Abuse and neglect are oftenlife-long damage can be very difficult because the
associated with physical injuries, delayed growth anddamage pervades every aspect of a child. There
development, and mental problems. They are moremay also be physiological changes that cannot just be
common in poor and extremely poor families than in"counseled" away. Medication can be useful for the
families with higher incomes. Child maltreatment is alsosymptoms of depression, anxiety and other
associated with psychological and emotional problemssymptoms, but should never be dispensed in the
such as aggression, depression, and post-traumaticabsence of counseling for the root of the problem.
stress disorder. In extreme cases, child abuse andFor children, play therapy and family therapy can be
neglect can lead to death.helpful.
Child abuse is also linked to an increase risk ofIt is important to help a child deal with the abuse as
substance abuse, eating disorders, obesity,well as the psychological problems they report.
depression, suicide, and sexual promiscuity later on inResearch indicates that without some form of
their lives. Women who were victims of physicalintervention against child maltreatment, the long-term
assault during their childhood are twice as likely to beconsequences for children can be nightmares, feeling
victims of physical assault as adults. There are alsoof insecurity, feeling unsafe, poor school performance
evidences which suggest that victims of childand low self-esteem. They are also more likely to be
maltreatment are more likely to engage themselvesabusive or become victims of abuse themselves.