| By CommunitySoul - Neil Fellowes | | | | amounted to an acknowledgment of showing |
| | | | kindness in a moment of need. A few years ago |
| Have you ever listened to someone else | | | | I was broke and in some pain from being |
| speaking about themselves and had one of | | | | financially crippled. I created the resources |
| those 'If they can do that, so can I' | | | | to change that and now teach a number of |
| thoughts? I often hear people say, 'I wish I | | | | clients how to get themselves back on track - |
| could do so-and-so.' And for me this kind of | | | | sometimes saving my fees several times over |
| statement is like the red rag and the bull. | | | | in a very short space of time. If money is |
| With all the 'stuff' that challenged me in | | | | troubling you, a good, low cost way to start |
| the past (divorce, abuse, finances, | | | | is my e-book, Getting in the Flow of Money - |
| self-esteem and lack of confidence) I know | | | | Immediately. It's straight talking, simple |
| better than most that you can have nothing | | | | and gives you an exercise we all should do, |
| and create a worthwhile, dreamy and very | | | | but probably don't. It's true that no one |
| holistic lifestyle. In fact, I'd go as far to | | | | goes from A-Z in a flash. You don't go from |
| say my life has become a bit of an experiment | | | | being beaten and shouted at to suddenly being |
| - and a personal quest - to see how much I | | | | aware and caring of others. There is a |
| can overcome, grow, enjoy and share what I've | | | | journey and a process to go through. And rest |
| learned so others can benefit. When I hear | | | | assured I'm not telling you these stories to |
| people make 'I wish' statements, My usual | | | | impress you with how 'Good I think I've got'. |
| response is now a kind of: 'Then why don't | | | | I'm sharing them with you as someone that |
| you?' reply. But what am I doing when I ask | | | | know what it's like to have had masses of |
| this question? Echart Tolle says, 'When pain | | | | pain and troubles and has (and is still) |
| is put close to radiant consciousness it is | | | | learning to enjoy life more with every |
| transformed like wood on a fire.' In other | | | | breath. I'm going to be covering this subject |
| words, when someone is struggling to get | | | | of lighting your fire, meltdown and creating |
| their dream out - when it's choking and | | | | gold in two talks I'm giving called Turning |
| trying to wriggle its way out, through the | | | | Inspiration into Reality - click here to book |
| barriers and the reasons and the excuses, all | | | | tickets. To be honest, I'm relishing the |
| I'm doing is chucking a log onto the fire, in | | | | prospect of giving these talks. I can't wait |
| the hope it burns later. Call it alchemy is | | | | to share what I've learned with you, because |
| you like. The question, 'What stops you?' is | | | | I know how you can manifest your inspiration |
| a meltdown question. And from all that melted | | | | dreams and wishes. Turning your wish |
| lead that slops up from inside, can | | | | (inspiration) into reality is about process. |
| eventually, turn to gold. One of the things | | | | Here's an outline: 1. Know what you want 2. |
| I've been doing over the last five years is | | | | Create a plan 3. Work on the plan everyday, |
| to take the heartache of what I went through | | | | even for just five minutes 4. See what's |
| as a victim of domestic violence and using it | | | | working. Notice what's not. 5. Change what's |
| positively to transform my life and those who | | | | not working. 6. Keep changing what's not |
| I come into contact with. When a woman was | | | | working until you get what you want Enjoy |
| screaming at her child in the street, I | | | | today's exercise. With Love and good wishes |
| understood from my years of abuse the damage | | | | Neil |
| this would do to the child. I didn't judge | | | | |
| the screaming parent, but just offered her my | | | | CommunitySoul takes the holistic approach to |
| help while she brought herself back to | | | | life. At it's core lies the commitment to |
| center. That simple gesture was enough to | | | | individual's personal development and growth. |
| transform the lead of the situation into | | | | Best-selling authors, top life coaches and |
| gold. It turned the shouting into a slightly | | | | experts contribute. |
| embarrassed smile and a thank you - which | | | | |