Light Your Fire

By CommunitySoul - Neil Fellowesamounted to an acknowledgment of showing
Have you ever listened to someone else speakingkindness in a moment of need. A few years ago I
about themselves and had one of those 'If they canwas broke and in some pain from being financially
do that, so can I' thoughts? I often hear people say,crippled. I created the resources to change that and
'I wish I could do so-and-so.' And for me this kind ofnow teach a number of clients how to get
statement is like the red rag and the bull. With all thethemselves back on track - sometimes saving my
'stuff' that challenged me in the past (divorce, abuse,fees several times over in a very short space of
finances, self-esteem and lack of confidence) I knowtime. If money is troubling you, a good, low cost way
better than most that you can have nothing andto start is my e-book, Getting in the Flow of Money
create a worthwhile, dreamy and very holistic- Immediately. It's straight talking, simple and gives
lifestyle. In fact, I'd go as far to say my life hasyou an exercise we all should do, but probably don't.
become a bit of an experiment - and a personalIt's true that no one goes from A-Z in a flash. You
quest - to see how much I can overcome, grow,don't go from being beaten and shouted at to
enjoy and share what I've learned so others cansuddenly being aware and caring of others. There is a
benefit. When I hear people make 'I wish'journey and a process to go through. And rest
statements, My usual response is now a kind of:assured I'm not telling you these stories to impress
'Then why don't you?' reply. But what am I doingyou with how 'Good I think I've got'. I'm sharing them
when I ask this question? Echart Tolle says, 'Whenwith you as someone that know what it's like to
pain is put close to radiant consciousness it ishave had masses of pain and troubles and has (and is
transformed like wood on a fire.' In other words,still) learning to enjoy life more with every breath. I'm
when someone is struggling to get their dream out -going to be covering this subject of lighting your fire,
when it's choking and trying to wriggle its way out,meltdown and creating gold in two talks I'm giving
through the barriers and the reasons and thecalled Turning Inspiration into Reality - click here to
excuses, all I'm doing is chucking a log onto the fire,book tickets. To be honest, I'm relishing the prospect
in the hope it burns later. Call it alchemy is you like.of giving these talks. I can't wait to share what I've
The question, 'What stops you?' is a meltdownlearned with you, because I know how you can
question. And from all that melted lead that slops upmanifest your inspiration dreams and wishes. Turning
from inside, can eventually, turn to gold. One of theyour wish (inspiration) into reality is about process.
things I've been doing over the last five years is toHere's an outline: 1. Know what you want 2. Create a
take the heartache of what I went through as aplan 3. Work on the plan everyday, even for just
victim of domestic violence and using it positively tofive minutes 4. See what's working. Notice what's
transform my life and those who I come into contactnot. 5. Change what's not working. 6. Keep changing
with. When a woman was screaming at her child inwhat's not working until you get what you want
the street, I understood from my years of abuseEnjoy today's exercise. With Love and good wishes
the damage this would do to the child. I didn't judgeNeil
the screaming parent, but just offered her my helpCommunitySoul takes the holistic approach to life. At
while she brought herself back to center. That simpleit's core lies the commitment to individual's personal
gesture was enough to transform the lead of thedevelopment and growth. Best-selling authors, top life
situation into gold. It turned the shouting into a slightlycoaches and experts contribute.
embarrassed smile and a thank you - which