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Article #195: Pedophiles/ephebophiles - Sexual Child Abuse

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The media reported the Michael Jackson said people who believe Michael is guilty
case incessantly for the duration of his "don't know him." Jackson's father, said
trial. What was tragically lacking are his son was beloved around the world but
the facts regarding pedophiles had trouble in the United States because
ephebophiles and sexual child abuse. of racism. He said the accuser's motives
Studies reveal 62% of girls and 31% of were clear: "It's about money."
boys will be sexually abused by age Even more frightening Pedophiles
18-considered low based on health Ephebophiles do not hold beliefs
services. reflecting society's moral and ethical
-80% are sexually abused by a family values. Therefore, coupled with the
member child's innocence and trust of the abuser
-19% are abused by someone the child usually pressure or violence is seldom
knows and trusts required. Thus, the perpetrator can
-1% according to government statistics unequivocally state, "I love children.
are abused by strangers Never-ever. I could never harm a child or
The unbelievable truth: Pedophiles anyone. It's not in my heart. It's not
Ephebophiles conduct themselves as who I am." --Michael Jackson, 1993.
average and ordinary to the world. He or There is another insidious aspect to
she may be a leader in the church; the Jackson's contact with adolescents-he
community; or business. Pedophiles flaunts the relationship as 'sweet and
ephebophiles seldom fit a classic innocent' admonishing anyone for
stereotype-education, socioeconomic believing it is sexual. Using the
status, career or culture. definition of sexual abuse, Jackson's
Furthermore, sexual abuse/incest is more befriending adolescent boys under the
difficult to believe or accept when the guise of helping them with a life
person we like, admire, love, and/or threatening illness and/or sleeping with
marry is the perpetrator. This is them, albeit, he slept on the floor and
precisely why Jackson's family, fans and the child slept in his bed, is in and of
the uninformed can unequivocally believe itself sexual abuse.
he could not possibly be an "Incest is both sexual abuse and an abuse
Ephebophile-sexual attraction to of power. It is violence that does not
adolescents. require force. Another is using the
Pedophiles/Ephebophiles are cunning victim, treating them in a way that they
predators with a honed mode of operation. do not want or in a way that is not
They are experts at manipulation, thus appropriate by a person with whom a
escaping adult reality. They feel different relationship is required. It is
entitled, justifying their actions as abuse because it does not take into
loving; not harming the child. They consideration the needs or wishes of the
expend considerable energy maintaining child; rather, it meets the needs of the
this illusion to themselves and others. other person at the child's expense. If
They create a persona of goodness beyond the experience has sexual meaning for
reproach. They go to great lengths to another person, in lieu of a nurturing
present themselves as exemplary people, purpose for the benefit of the child, it
who love children. Jackson's defense is abuse. If it is unwanted or
attorney, Mesereau, invoked this inappropriate for her age or the
convoluted tactic in response to the relationship, it is abuse. Incest [sexual
judge's ruling that previous accounts of abuse] can occur through words, sounds,
sexual abuse claims, which were settled, or even exposure of the child to sights
was admissible. Mesereau countered, "He or acts that are sexual but do not
[Jackson] also has spent millions on involve her. If she is forced to see what
children with AIDS. We can drown them she does not want to see, for instance,
with examples of where Mr. Jackson has by an exhibitionist, it is abuse. If a
been so benevolent, so generous, so child is forced into an experience that
charitable, so giving for good causes, is sexual in content or overtone that is
that it will make their theory look abuse.
silly." As long as the child is induced into
Mesereau's statement exemplifies, anyone sexual activity with someone who is in a
who sees through the perpetrator's position of greater power, whether that
façade is met with admonishment and power is derived through the
rebuke for being critical, irrational, perpetrator's age, size, status, or
racist, out-to-get the person, and/or relationship, the act is abusive. A child
jealous. The perpetrator is the family who cannot refuse, or who believes she or
emperor with no clothes. "I know my son, he cannot refuse, is a child who has been
and this is ridiculous," Jackson's violated." (E. Sue Blume, Secret
mother, Katherine Jackson, said in an Survivors).
interview on CBS "The Early Show." She






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