| Relationships are like physical magnets. That is why | | | | give them solace; erase their painful memories, and |
| you find that most people who enter into a | | | | make them live normally. But where can they find |
| relationship are alike. This also applies to children who | | | | such partners? Their subconscious mind keeps telling |
| have been abused during their childhood. They | | | | them to be on guard; and not to enter into another |
| somehow attract other adults who have had similar | | | | bruising relationship. That is why most of their |
| experience. | | | | relationships are brief and unnatural. |
| However, very few of these relationships tend to be | | | | Children of divorced families |
| stable. People who have had a traumatic childhood | | | | We should also not forget children whose parents |
| need more mature partners. They don't need | | | | break up during their growing years. These children |
| partners who are emotionally and mentally scarred. | | | | may not suffer from any direct abuse but |
| Unfortunately, as the Law of Attraction states, they | | | | emotionally they are shattered. The effect is |
| continue to attract partners who are like them. | | | | especially noticeable among those children who have |
| Kinds of child abuse | | | | seen their parents inflict physical and emotional |
| However, before examining relationships between | | | | wounds upon each other. Such children tend to slip |
| adults who have had a traumatic childhood it is | | | | into depression, become unnaturally quiet and |
| important to understand the different kinds of child | | | | withdrawn or turn into bullies. |
| abuse. Psychologists recognize four clear acts of | | | | They too, when they become adults, get attracted |
| abuse. These are: | | | | to men and women who come from divorced |
| 1. Physical abuse: This happens when children are | | | | families. Many of them would not like their partners |
| repeatedly beaten by hands, fists, sticks etc for small | | | | to go through the same private hell as their parents |
| misdemeanors. Physical abuse may leave permanent | | | | did. But the insecurity of the past does not leave |
| scars, both physical and emotional. | | | | them untouched. Many of them end up going through |
| 2. Sexual acts: This happens when children are forced | | | | similar motions, sooner than later. |
| to touch private parts or are made to commit | | | | Can counseling help |
| unnatural acts. Most children end up getting confused, | | | | The experience is especially nightmarish for those |
| and feeling dirty and unhealthy. | | | | individuals who happen to have suffered similar abuse |
| 3. Emotional abuse: In this case the child is deprived | | | | during childhood. They may be initially attracted to |
| love, affection or acceptance within the family. | | | | each other when they first share their experiences. |
| Instead the child may is constantly shouted at, | | | | They may get a feeling that they have finally found |
| criticized, ridiculed and verbally abused. | | | | someone who can relate to them. But this euphoria is |
| 4. Neglect: This happens when a child is deprived of | | | | short-lived. It is not long before they start getting |
| proper food, warmth, shelter, clothing etc. The child | | | | into each other's way, and start blaming each other |
| then hungers for material and emotional comforts | | | | for their troubles. The anger and hurt may even be |
| and may grow up to have an unhealthy affinity for | | | | passed onto unsuspecting children. It is like a vicious |
| physical needs. | | | | cycle, a story of pain without end. |
| The unfortunate thing is that most acts of child | | | | What is needed is mature counseling, and the |
| abuse are either committed by parents, elder | | | | willingness to change. The counseling is especially |
| brothers, sisters, stepfathers, stepmothers, | | | | helpful in those cases where both the partners seek |
| babysitters or by people who form the immediate | | | | it together. They then find one more reason to hold |
| family. In very rare cases a child will suffer at the | | | | onto each other. Otherwise, victims of child abuse, |
| hands of an outsider. | | | | who did not get proper counseling when they were |
| The result is that the child does not grow up into a | | | | children, continue to live like the proverbial bull in the |
| healthy individual. Deep within this individual is a child | | | | china shop hurting themselves and everyone around |
| who feels threatened and abused all the time. The | | | | them. |
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