Family Advocacy - Part One

Who Was Jean Piaget?Jean Piaget was to cognitive1990). There remains a strong misconception that
development as Albert Einstein was to physics. Inmentally ill parents are violent and are therefore at an
fact Einstein was afan of Piaget's work. Jean Piagetincreased risk for abusing their children. While this
was born in Switzerland on Aug. 9, 1896. He publishedmay be true for alcohol and drug abusers, it is not
his first scientific paper at the age of 10. By the agetrue for parents with psychiatric disorders getting
of 22 he already had a doctorate in zoology. Hetreatment.Still, for these reasons many people are
became interested in psychoanalysis after WWII andafraid of getting the help that they need. They are
attended lectures given by Carl Jung. He then studiedafraid their symptoms may give the impression that
in Paris working in Alfred Binet's child psychology lab.they would be an unfit parent. If they are seen as
It was there that he first began to notice thatunfit they could lose their children. Therefore families
children of the same ages answered true/falsemay not receive the services they need to raise
questions similarly.He returned to Switzerland andhealthy children. Thus a vicious cycle begins.Warning
spent many years studying and conversing withSignsThe following is a list of symptoms that could
children. He realized through his conversations thatindicate that children are not dealing well with a
when asked a question a child did not necessarily giveparent's mental illness. Mind you, these are also signs
an incorrect answer just because the answer wasn'tfor other causes such as trouble in school, peer
an adult response. They instead gave logical answerspressure, sexual problems, abuse, relationship
based on the knowledge that they had within them.problems, substance abuse, a change in
He concluded that if adults try to teach children tocircumstances at home and a host of other issues.
quickly that it prevents them from reinventing itStill, I felt they were worth mentioning. If you notice
themselves, thus making it their own.His careerany of these things in your children over a continual
spanned nearly 75 years and he is credited withperiod for 3-4 weeks, please seek help for them.
developing several new fields of science includingNever turn a blind eye and think that the problem will
developmental psychology, cognitive theory andsolve itself.*moodiness
what later became genetic epistemology. Without*bad temper or irritability
him, some of today's modern methods would have*crying a lot
never come about. Many of his theories are still the*sleeping problems
basis for modern child development including the*lying
"Theory of Knowledge Construction." This theory is*not talking to people or going out with friends
based upon the principle that when a child comes into*eating more or less than usual or skipping meals
contact with a new piece of information, his mind*giving up hobbies
must understand it in a way that fits his current view*arguing
of the world. If it doesn't fit the mold then the child*feeling lazy, bored or tired
will re-construct their knowledge so they can*stealing or getting into trouble
assimilate the new information. It is much like*not looking after themselves (hygiene)
constructing a building - you cannot start with the*low self-esteem
top, you must build the foundation first and then*acting recklessly
develop up from the base.Four Stages of Cognitive*drinking alcohol or using drugs
Development in ChildrenLet's take a minute to get a*skipping school
feel for Piaget's 4 stages of cognitive development in*preferring to be aloneHow Children are Affected -
children. Remember, he spent most of his lifeRisk or Resilience?As seen above in Jean Piaget's
studying and interacting with children and I think his"Theory of Knowledge Construction," children are
theory makes a lot of sense.Stage I: Sensorimotoronly capable of understanding things if they have the
(Infancy)Infants learn about the world around themknowledge from the preceding level of development.
through sensation and movement. The focus at thisAt each level they can be affected either adversely
stage is on motor and reflex actions. They take aor positively by their interactions with their parents -
great interest in the faces and voices of caretakers.regardless if the parent has a mental illness or not.
Parents can aid in their development by makingThe challenge here is the capability of mentally ill
faces, talking and singing to their little ones.Stage II:parents to provide what is needed at each stage.
Preoperation (Toddler & Early Childhood)This stage's(This is where you want to go back and re-read the
main focus on the child's intellectual development issection on the 4 stages of cognitive development.) It
language and using symbols (e.g. words and pictures).is up to us as parents to provide them what is
The child will act intuitively at this stage. They haveneeded and as a mentally ill parent that becomes
active imaginations and vivid fantasies. It is notquite a challenge.Now, research clearly indicates that
uncommon for the child to personify objects, thusparental mental illness increases the risk of the child
giving toys and dolls human like qualities. Parentsdeveloping emotional or behavior problems. (I'm
should take the time to help them learn language andleaving out genetics here since it is a different issue.)
promote their imaginations ,as well as pay attentionChildren with the most serious emotional
to how they play with objects.Stage III: Concretedisturbances, served by systems of care across the
Operation(Elementary & Early AdolescenceDuring thisU.S., report high rates of parental mental illness,
stage children start to process abstract conceptspsychiatric hospitalizations and substance abuse
such as numbers and relationships. Before a child(Comprehensive Community Mental Health Services
could only manipulate things physically. Now theyfor Children and their Families Program, Annual Report
begin to be able to manipulate them mentally as well.to Congress, 1998). This report shows nothing of the
To do this they need concrete examples or they willrelationship between the age of a child and their
notexposure to parental mental illness. Some feel that if
understand the concept. A child's developmentchildren are exposed repeatedly at a young age their
should focus on giving concrete examples ofrisk is higher. However, some studies have failed to
ideas.Stage IV: Formal Operation (Adolescence &find conclusive results regarding age or developmental
Early Adulthood)This is the stage where childrenstages in regards to their level of risk (Oyserman et
begin to reason logically and analytically withoutal.; Weissman, 1989).Stressors outside of the family
needing concrete examples as before. Children aredetrimentally affect children of parents with a mental
now capable of hypothetical and deductive reasoning.illness. Stressful issues that increase the likelihood of
Encouraging young people to consider multipleemotional or behavioral problems are minority status,
possibilities will help their development at this stage.Alllow levels of education, stigma, single parenthood,
of these stages represent areas of opportunity orsocial isolation and poverty (Biedel & Turner, 1997;
risk of failure when it comes to helping your child getHammen et al., 1987; Harnish et al., 1995; Sameroff &
through the world. This task is tough enough for twoSeifer, 1983). These types of issues are difficult at
parents who are normal by societies standards.best for a child to cope with but when you add in a
Throw in a parent who suffers from a mental illnessmentally ill parent the problem is simply compounded
and you face a much greater challenge. This is themassively.The gender of the child also appears to
reason I started with the 4 stages of development -play a roll in how they react to a parent's illness,
so that parents could see areas that they couldalthough there is conflicting evidence in how exactly.
reach out to their children in an appropriate way andSome studies show that girls are more adversely
affect them in a positive manner.Some Generalaffected and some feel that it is boys who have a
Statistics~*~Almost 1/3 of American women and 1/5worse time coping. Studies have shown, however,
of American men provide evidence of psychiatricthat girls are more prone to develop depression and
disorder in the past 12 months. Of these women,boys are more likely to exhibit conduct problems
65% are mothers; 52% are fathers.~*~Women and(Cummings & Davies, 1994).It is well documented
men with mental illness are at least as likely, if notthat children with greater intelligence, better social
more likely, than those without psychiatric disorder toskills and stronger cognitive processes have been
become parents.~*~The majority of adults falling intoshown to be more resilient to their parental mental
psychiatric diagnostic categories (affectiveillness (Beardslee & Podorefsky, 1988; Radke-Yarrow
disorders,anxiety disorders, PTSD, psychotic& Sherman, 1990.) Cognitive skills such as a positive
disorders, etc.) are parents.~*~1 in 4 Americanand coherent self-concept, a positive attribution style,
families are affected by parental mental illness.Whyeffective coping and problem solving abilities have
Parents Don't Seek HelpOne of the biggest reasonsbeen associated with positive outcomes among
that adults don't seek assistance for their mentalchildren in general and specifically among children with
problems is due to the stigma that is still attached todepressed mothers (Beardslee & Podorefsky, 1988;
having a mental illness. Unfortunately many people stillDowney & Walker, 1989; Radke-Yarrow et al.,
do not view mental illnesses as a medical problem but1995)Terry J. Coyier is a 37-year-old college student
as a personal flaw or weakness in the person. Youstudying for an Associates of Applied Sciences
still hear the mentally ill referred to as "crazy," "loony,"degree. She is also a freelance writer who writes
"nuts," "psycho," or even worse terms.One of theabout bipolar disorder and other mental illnesses.
other reasons for not seeking treatment is thatTerry was diagnosed with bipolar ten years ago. She
mental illness is the primary reason for custodiallives with her son in the Dallas/Ft. Worth Metroplex.
challenge. Some studies have reported as many asTerry is an author on which is a site for Writers and
70-80% of parents with a mental illness have losther personal portfolio can be viewed here.
custody of their children due to their illness (Burton,