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Family Advocacy - Part One

Who Was Jean Piaget?Jean Piaget was topeople are afraid of getting the help that
cognitive development as Albert Einstein wasthey need. They are afraid their symptoms may
to physics. In fact Einstein was afan ofgive the impression that they would be an
Piaget's work. Jean Piaget was born inunfit parent. If they are seen as unfit they
Switzerland on Aug. 9, 1896. He published hiscould lose their children. Therefore families
first scientific paper at the age of 10. Bymay not receive the services they need to
the age of 22 he already had a doctorate inraise healthy children. Thus a vicious cycle
zoology. He became interested inbegins.Warning SignsThe following is a list
psychoanalysis after WWII and attendedof symptoms that could indicate that children
lectures given by Carl Jung. He then studiedare not dealing well with a parent's mental
in Paris working in Alfred Binet's childillness. Mind you, these are also signs for
psychology lab. It was there that he firstother causes such as trouble in school, peer
began to notice that children of the samepressure, sexual problems, abuse,
ages answered true/false questionsrelationship problems, substance abuse, a
similarly.He returned to Switzerland andchange in circumstances at home and a host of
spent many years studying and conversing withother issues. Still, I felt they were worth
children. He realized through hismentioning. If you notice any of these
conversations that when asked a question athings in your children over a continual
child did not necessarily give an incorrectperiod for 3-4 weeks, please seek help for
answer just because the answer wasn't anthem. Never turn a blind eye and think that
adult response. They instead gave logicalthe  problem  will  solve  itself.*moodiness
answers based on the knowledge that they had
within them. He concluded that if adults try*bad  temper  or  irritability
to teach children to quickly that it prevents
them from reinventing it themselves, thus*crying  a  lot
making it their own.His career spanned nearly
75 years and he is credited with developing*sleeping  problems
several new fields of science including
developmental psychology, cognitive theory*lying
and what later became genetic epistemology.
Without him, some of today's modern methods*not talking to people or going out with
would have never come about. Many of hisfriends
theories are still the basis for modern child
development including the "Theory of*eating more or less than usual or skipping
Knowledge Construction." This theory is basedmeals
upon the principle that when a child comes
into contact with a new piece of information,*giving  up  hobbies
his mind must understand it in a way that
fits his current view of the world. If it*arguing
doesn't fit the mold then the child will
re-construct their knowledge so they can*feeling  lazy,  bored  or  tired
assimilate the new information. It is much
like constructing a building - you cannot*stealing  or  getting  into  trouble
start with the top, you must build the
foundation first and then develop up from the*not  looking  after  themselves  (hygiene)
base.Four Stages of Cognitive Development in
ChildrenLet's take a minute to get a feel for*low  self-esteem
Piaget's 4 stages of cognitive development in
children. Remember, he spent most of his life*acting  recklessly
studying and interacting with children and I
think his theory makes a lot of sense.Stage*drinking  alcohol  or  using  drugs
I: Sensorimotor (Infancy)Infants learn about
the world around them through sensation and*skipping  school
movement. The focus at this stage is on motor
and reflex actions. They take a great*preferring to be aloneHow Children are
interest in the faces and voices ofAffected - Risk or Resilience?As seen above
caretakers. Parents can aid in theirin Jean Piaget's "Theory of Knowledge
development by making faces, talking andConstruction," children are only capable of
singing to their little ones.Stage II:understanding things if they have the
Preoperation (Toddler & Early Childhood)Thisknowledge from the preceding level of
stage's main focus on the child'sdevelopment. At each level they can be
intellectual development is language andaffected either adversely or positively by
using symbols (e.g. words and pictures). Thetheir interactions with their parents -
child will act intuitively at this stage.regardless if the parent has a mental illness
They have active imaginations and vividor not. The challenge here is the capability
fantasies. It is not uncommon for the childof mentally ill parents to provide what is
to personify objects, thus giving toys andneeded at each stage. (This is where you want
dolls human like qualities. Parents shouldto go back and re-read the section on the 4
take the time to help them learn language andstages of cognitive development.) It is up to
promote their imaginations ,as well as payus as parents to provide them what is needed
attention to how they play with objects.Stageand as a mentally ill parent that becomes
III: Concrete Operation(Elementary & Earlyquite a challenge.Now, research clearly
AdolescenceDuring this stage children startindicates that parental mental illness
to process abstract concepts such as numbersincreases the risk of the child developing
and relationships. Before a child could onlyemotional or behavior problems. (I'm leaving
manipulate things physically. Now they beginout genetics here since it is a different
to be able to manipulate them mentally asissue.) Children with the most serious
well. To do this they need concrete examplesemotional disturbances, served by systems of
or  they  will  notcare across the U.S., report high rates of
parental mental illness, psychiatric
understand the concept. A child'shospitalizations and substance abuse
development should focus on giving concrete(Comprehensive Community Mental Health
examples of ideas.Stage IV: Formal OperationServices for Children and their Families
(Adolescence & Early Adulthood)This is theProgram, Annual Report to Congress, 1998).
stage where children begin to reasonThis report shows nothing of the relationship
logically and analytically without needingbetween the age of a child and their exposure
concrete examples as before. Children are nowto parental mental illness. Some feel that if
capable of hypothetical and deductivechildren are exposed repeatedly at a young
reasoning. Encouraging young people toage their risk is higher. However, some
consider multiple possibilities will helpstudies have failed to find conclusive
their development at this stage.All of theseresults regarding age or developmental stages
stages represent areas of opportunity or riskin regards to their level of risk (Oyserman
of failure when it comes to helping youret al.; Weissman, 1989).Stressors outside of
child get through the world. This task isthe family detrimentally affect children of
tough enough for two parents who are normalparents with a mental illness. Stressful
by societies standards. Throw in a parent whoissues that increase the likelihood of
suffers from a mental illness and you face aemotional or behavioral problems are minority
much greater challenge. This is the reason Istatus, low levels of education, stigma,
started with the 4 stages of development - sosingle parenthood, social isolation and
that parents could see areas that they couldpoverty (Biedel & Turner, 1997; Hammen et
reach out to their children in an appropriateal., 1987; Harnish et al., 1995; Sameroff &
way and affect them in a positive manner.SomeSeifer, 1983). These types of issues are
General Statistics~*~Almost 1/3 of Americandifficult at best for a child to cope with
women and 1/5 of American men providebut when you add in a mentally ill parent the
evidence of psychiatric disorder in the pastproblem is simply compounded massively.The
12 months. Of these women, 65% are mothers;gender of the child also appears to play a
52% are fathers.~*~Women and men with mentalroll in how they react to a parent's illness,
illness are at least as likely, if not morealthough there is conflicting evidence in how
likely, than those without psychiatricexactly. Some studies show that girls are
disorder to become parents.~*~The majority ofmore adversely affected and some feel that it
adults falling into psychiatric diagnosticis boys who have a worse time coping. Studies
categories (affective disorders,anxietyhave shown, however, that girls are more
disorders, PTSD, psychotic disorders, etc.)prone to develop depression and boys are more
are parents.~*~1 in 4 American families arelikely to exhibit conduct problems (Cummings
affected by parental mental illness.Why& Davies, 1994).It is well documented that
Parents Don't Seek HelpOne of the biggestchildren with greater intelligence, better
reasons that adults don't seek assistance forsocial skills and stronger cognitive
their mental problems is due to the stigmaprocesses have been shown to be more
that is still attached to having a mentalresilient to their parental mental illness
illness. Unfortunately many people still do(Beardslee & Podorefsky, 1988; Radke-Yarrow &
not view mental illnesses as a medicalSherman, 1990.) Cognitive skills such as a
problem but as a personal flaw or weakness inpositive and coherent self-concept, a
the person. You still hear the mentally illpositive attribution style, effective coping
referred to as "crazy," "loony," "nuts,"and problem solving abilities have been
"psycho," or even worse terms.One of theassociated with positive outcomes among
other reasons for not seeking treatment ischildren in general and specifically among
that mental illness is the primary reason forchildren with depressed mothers (Beardslee &
custodial challenge. Some studies havePodorefsky, 1988; Downey & Walker, 1989;
reported as many as 70-80% of parents with aRadke-Yarrow et al., 1995)Terry J. Coyier is
mental illness have lost custody of theira 37-year-old college student studying for an
children due to their illness (Burton, 1990).Associates of Applied Sciences degree. She
There remains a strong misconception thatis also a freelance writer who writes about
mentally ill parents are violent and arebipolar disorder and other mental illnesses.
therefore at an increased risk for abusingTerry was diagnosed with bipolar ten years
their children. While this may be true forago. She lives with her son in the Dallas
alcohol and drug abusers, it is not true forFt. Worth Metroplex. Terry is an author on
parents with psychiatric disorders gettingwhich is a site for Writers and her personal
treatment.Still, for these reasons manyportfolio can be viewed here.



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