| You are likely to get different divorce advice when | | | | give you advice on every aspect of getting a |
| you ask for it, depending on who you ask. | | | | divorce. It's in your best interests to consult more |
| You should be clear in your mind exactly what you | | | | than one person when you are seeking divorce |
| want to know before asking for divorce advice. You | | | | advice. |
| will then know what questions to ask. Do NOT make | | | | When you are sure the divorce is agreed to by both |
| the common mistake of not differentiating all the | | | | parties, and will be clean and simple without any |
| different divorce categories, as there are many | | | | financial problems then such a divorce should not |
| different divorce categories to look for. | | | | require any complicated divorce advice. Both parties |
| Mind Is Fully Made Up | | | | will have already agreed to getting divorced, so |
| If your mind is fully made up to get a divorce, | | | | should be emotionally well prepared, with no particular |
| however tough it may be, then the advice you seek | | | | outstanding worries - only sadness. The kind of |
| should be relevant to getting a divorce as soon as | | | | divorce advice under such circumstances would not |
| possible. This will probably involve meeting with | | | | normally have very great financial implications, and |
| lawyers, so essential you have all the proper | | | | would probably deal only with a pre-nuptial agreement |
| information to give them. He or she will then be | | | | or even a mutually agreed-to divorce. |
| better prepared to provide you with the proper | | | | However, if you must get divorced perhaps the best |
| divorce advice. | | | | divorce advice you can ever get is one which enables |
| Not Sure... | | | | you to take care of all the matters on your own by |
| However, if you are not totally sure you want to get | | | | talking to friends, counselors and family. Ultimately the |
| a divorce you would be wise to talk to a lawyer or | | | | divorce is your decision and only you should be able |
| financial expert to ask advice about the financial | | | | to think and act it out as best as you can. My advice: |
| implications. Divorce advice regarding the wellbeing of | | | | Try avoiding divorce at all, if you can, as often painful |
| your children can usually best be obtained from | | | | for all concerned! |
| specialists. Marriage counselors are best qualified to | | | | |