The Hidden Wounds of Child Abuse

"I just hate myself. I keep thinking there's somethingby an adult at some time during their childhood. Most
I should have done, should of said to stop it. I justsexual abusers are someone in the family or
feel so dirty." - Lisa. "Childhood sexual abusesomeone the child knows. Child abuse is far more
is…an overwhelming, damaging, and humiliatinglikely to occur in the child's home than in a day care
assault on a child's mind, soul, and body…Thecenter.
abuse invades every facet of one's existence," saysOften the severe emotional damage to abused
the Right to Innocence, by Beverly Engel.children does not surface until adolescence or later,
During the early years when a child develops personalwhen many abused children become abusing parents.
worth and learns to love and trust, "this process ofAn adult who was abused as a child often has
trust building gets derailed," says Dr.J.P. Gannon. Thetrouble establishing intimate personal relationships.
abuser robs the child of any safety, privacy andThese men and women may have trouble with
self-respect. This may lead to depression, lowphysical closeness, touching, intimacy, and trust as
self-esteem, guilt, and rage. Many will turn theiradults. They are also at higher risk for anxiety,
destructive feelings on their friendships, marriages,depression, substance abuse, medical illness, and
and on their own self.problems at school or work. Without proper
Statistics are alarming! In one area 84% of prisontreatment, physically abused children can be damaged
inmates were found to be abused as children. One infor life.
three girls and one in five boys are sexually abused