"Wishing Big" For The Holiday Season

I am going to have to write to the big-wigs at Sears.who pocket huge salaries while they squander their
Or call them.employees' retirement funds, as well as other types
What's the idea, anyway? What kind of a message isof fraud and theft, not to mention wars and murders
that to send during the holiday season? Wish big?and rapes and child abuse and spouse abuse and
But that's exactly what the Sears televisionelder abuse.
commercials are suggesting -- wish big.2. I wish that those people who are intolerant of
Then again, why not?other people -- whether it's because of skin color or
People in this country are already living beyond theirlifestyle or economic status or religious beliefs --
incomes and are charging all of those lovely 'extras'would learn to be a bit more tolerant. Even a slight
to their credit cards. So why not wish big atincrease in tolerance would make the world a better
Christmas time? By all means, spend your availableplace.
cash on necessities like food, shelter and clothing. And3. I wish that all of those people who are victims of
then put that expensive piece of jewelry -- or anatural disasters (tsunami, hurricanes, earthquakes)
large-screen television -- or a computer completecould have plenty of food and warm blankets and
with a $4,000 color laser printer -- on the credit cardsturdy shelters and money to rebuild their homes and
and pay it off over the next two or three or four ortheir towns and their villages.
five or ten years. If you do that, you'll feel better.4. I wish all of those people who are sick and dying
Much better. Then you can do it again next year andand in pain could find a cure for their ailments or relief
extend that payment for another ten years.from their suffering.
Children are living with inflated expectations about5. I wish that those senior citizens -- and younger,
what they 'should' want for Christmas, too. Toys?people, too (especially those families living without
Books? Dolls? Stuffed animals? Certainly not.health insurance) -- who have to make a choice
Expensive electronics. Games. Ipods. A computer forbetween buying their medicine and buying groceries
their rooms so they can roam the Internet and be awould not have to choose but would be able to
target for every sexual predator out there. That'safford both.
the thing children need. Not something which will6. I wish all of those people in the world who are
challenge their imaginations and their creativity andhungry could have an abundance of food, and I wish
their thinking skills.all of those people in the world who need shelter
Materialism and consumerism and capitalism. That'scould have a home to call their own.
what we should have more of in this world. That's7. I wish all of those who feel lonely and unloved and
what people need to get them out of debt and backunwanted could find find comfort in the love and
on the road to financial solvency. That's what peoplecompanionship of friends and family and neighbors
need to help them be healthy and live moreand the community around them.
comfortably. After all, if people are busy working toThese are a few of my ideas about 'wishing big' for
pay for those "wish big" items, they won't have thethe Christmas season.
time or the energy to worry about what theWhat are yours?
politicians or the big corporations are doing behind© 2005 LeAnn R. Ralph
their backs.LeAnn R. Ralph is the author of the books "Cream of
Wish big, indeed.the Crop (More True Stories from Wisconsin Farm)"
Well, I can 'wish big' too.(trade paperback, Sept. 2005); "Christmas in Dairyland
Here's my idea of 'wishing big' for this holiday season(True Stories from a Wisconsin Farm" (trade
--paperback 2003); "Give Me a Home Where the Dairy
1. I wish that people would be nicer to one another.Cows Roam" (trade paperback 2004); "Preserve
You know -- the old 'golden rule' -- treat others theYour Family History (A Step-by-Step Guide for
way you would want to be treated. Then maybe weInterviewing Family Members and Writing Oral
could say that certain things no longer exist: CEOsHistories" (e-book 2004).