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Article #51: Understanding The Law... Defacto, Divorce And Family Law

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The following Q&A's have been provided to separated parents is an essential part of
help you better understand Family Law. these reforms.
Q. I recently divorced my husband who has Q. Do these reforms mean that children
left me with the four children and he has will spent equal amounts of time with
suggested that as we have no assets he each parent?
will give me half of his superannuation. A. No. The focus is both parents will
What should I do as I am unemployed and have an equal role in making decisions
on a single mother's supporting pension about important issues such as schooling
and he does not pay child support? and health care.
A. Unfortunately you are being very badly Q. How do parenting plans and parenting
treated as your entitlements would orders sit with each other?
include spousal maintenance, child A. Basically it means that both the
support (see the child support agency) parents and the court need to have the
and access to at least 50% of his best interests of the child in mind at
superannuation. You need to seek urgent all times when making decisions affecting
legal assistance and perhaps legal aid is the child's wellbeing.
where you should look first. Q. How will the courts determine how much
Q. I have been divorced from my former time the child spends with each parent?
husband for over seven years and although A. Courts will determine this by
I am in employment he has been on the reference to what is in the best
dole throughout and has a history of interests of the child and other
violence. Recently he approached me and practical considerations. Time can mean
suggested that as he was now in a stable equal time or substantial or significant
relationship he would like to have time with both parents which may include
contact with our son. What should I do? day to day routine time not just weekends
A. In all cases involving children it and holidays.
always gets back to what is in the best Q. When will these changes which focus on
interests of the child. Should your cooperatively resolving disputes come
ex-husband have a history of violence into operation?
involving both yourself and the child, A. It is expected they will start on 1st
custody would not be an issue and July 2007 when parents will be required
supervised contact is probably what would to attend family disputes resolution
be allowed. This always gets back to sessions and be expected to make a
working out a program which will be genuine effort to resolve issues and
acceptable to both parties provided that disputes before taking a parenting matter
the child will not suffer as a result. to court.
Q. I am currently involved in a de-facto Q. How does the court system accommodate
relationship and my partner has excluded these changes?
me from the home by locking me out. What A. In parenting cases there will be
can I do as she has become personally change to a case-management approach with
violent towards me and we need to sell the focus being on the early detection
the house so we can go our separate ways? and dealing with of violence and abuse.
A. In regard to the property you should Q. What will happen where there has been
ask your solicitor to write to your a breach of parenting orders?
ex-partner indicating that you wish to A. The court will have wider powers to
have the property sold and if they do not deal with people who breach parenting
comply then you can always approach the orders.
Equity Division of the Supreme Court for Q. What will happen where parents fail to
relief. fulfil their responsibilities?
Q. Do you think it advisable for me to A. Where parents fail to fulfil their
enter into a financial agreement with my major parenting responsibilities the
intended defacto partner as I have all courts will be able to take these matters
the assets and she has very little? into account.
A. Yes. There are a number of reasons for Q. At what stage will this disputes
doing this but principally you need to resolution mechanism come into play?
ensure you are fully protected given your A. Separating parents will be required to
age and if the relationship breaks down undertake some form of disputes
then you have a level of protection which resolution for parenting disagreements
would not otherwise be available to you. before proceeding to court. Parents will
Q. I have been involved in a same-sex have access to the new family
relationship with another person for over relationship centres or may attend
20 years and I have retained a firm of another accredited service or
solicitors who seem reluctant to push my practitioner in this regard.
case as strongly as I would like. The Q. Will it be compulsory for separating
other side is making mincemeat out of my couples to attend a family relationship
representative who does not seem to know centre?
what to do to counter their attacks. What A. No, but the law will require
do I do in the circumstances? separating parents to attempt disputes
A. If you are unhappy with the type of resolution before taking a parenting
representation you are receiving and the dispute to court.
service is falling well short of your Q. What does the court bear in mind when
expectations then you need to consider considering what is in the best interests
whether or not it is in your best of the child?
interests to move to another lawyer. A. That the children know both their
Same-sex defacto relationships and parents and to be protected from harm
marriages which fail all require each being given equal weight.
representatives who possess skills Q. Are there any other considerations
appropriate to best represent their which are taken into account?
client's interests. If counselling, A. Yes. Additional consideration is given
mediation and conciliation has not worked to views expressed by the child, the
for you such that you find you are under nature of the child's relationship with
constant attack and need to take a more his/her parents and other important
forceful approach then perhaps it is time persons such as grandparents, relatives
for you to consider changing lawyers to and extended family members as well as
one who can better represent your the practical difficulties of a child
interests as a 5-10% swing in having contact with a parent(s).
entitlements from one party to another Q. Are children entitled to independent
may mean that legal fees become legal advice where a matter proceeds to
irrelevant in this context as you will court?
need to fully protect your interests in A. Yes. The court may order an
these circumstances. independent lawyer be engaged to
Q. I have just broken up with my defacto represent the best interests of the child
partner and everything was in her name, and to inform the court of their
although I did a lot of building work to independent view in this connection.
improve the property and paid the Q. What is a parenting plan?
mortgage instalments whilst we were A. A parenting plan is an agreement
together. Am I entitled to be recompensed worked out between a child's separating
for my contribution to the relationship? parents which can take any form provided
A. Yes. Effectively where two people are it sets out the parenting arrangements
in a defacto relationship and one makes for children. It must be produced in
all the financial contributions to it writing and dated and signed by both
whilst the other takes the benefits even parents.
though they may own the principal asset Q. Can a parenting plan be changed at any
the court will look to the nature and time?
extent of the financial contributions you A. Yes, as it is voluntary it needs to
have made and the assets will split based have the agreement of both parents. It
on this after accounts have been taken. should be borne in mind that parenting
Q. My boyfriend has a couple of children plans are not legally enforceable.
to an ex-girlfriend who has packed up, Q. Will the court have any regard to
moved on and not told anyone where she parenting plans if they are not legally
has gone. Is there anything my boyfriend enforceable?
can do? A. When the court is making a parenting
A. Yes. He can approach the court for order in relation to a child they are
orders which means that anybody who has required to consider the terms of the
any knowledge of those children's most recent parenting plan and to
whereabouts has to deliver up information consider the extent to which both parents
so that their current location can be have complied with their obligations in
discovered so the court can make orders relation to the child.
for their return. Q. Where a court has made a parenting
Q. I am a grandmother - do I have any order with respect to parenting
rights to see my grandchildren? arrangements can the parents change it
A. Yes. You fit within a particular class without having to go back to court?
of important individuals which the court A. Yes provided the court order does not
considers important to the development of prohibit this.
your children and therefore you would be Q. Although it is expected that family
entitled to see them after you have disputes resolution to new parenting
approached the court for orders. cases will apply from mid-2007 when will
Q. What effect with the new changes in it apply to all parenting cases?
the family law system have on children? A. The final date is expected to be
A. All children will have a right to know mid-2008 but it will not apply in cases
both their parents and to be protected of family violence or child abuse.
from harm. Q. Will family disputes resolution apply
Q. What impact will the new changes have in all cases?
on parents? A. No. It will only apply to parents who
A. Parenting is regarded as a want to go to court over a parenting
responsibility which should be shared issue where it is compulsory unless they
equally. This may not mean equal time; it fit within the listed exceptions or where
could mean substantial or significant they have already agreed on parenting
time spent by both parents with the arrangements.
child. Q. How does the court know that
Q. Is it true that these new family law compulsory family disputes resolution has
changes mainly focus on children? already taken place?
A. Yes. These changes in the law are all A. This is because a certificate is
about putting the needs and best required from an accredited family
interests of children first. disputes resolution practitioner before
Q. What are the responsibilities of the court can hear an application for a
parents in this regard? parenting order. Basically the
A. Parents bear the responsibility for certificate states that family disputes
their children's physical and emotional resolution did not work for a number of
wellbeing which should be share equally reasons.
between parents provided they are not Q. How will family violence and child
subjected to abuse or violence. abuse be dealt with under the current
Co-operation between separating or changes?






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