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Article #113: What Abused Women Must Know When Seeking Help for Domestic Abuse

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The last thing an abused woman needs to survivors of domestic abuse at the
hear while seeking safety from domestic bequest of their perpetrators. And over
violence is that she's crazy. the years, actually decades, they became
Unfortunately, however, this may be one the enemies of battered women.
of first things she learns from the I have since learned that this is
evaluating mental health professional. understandably so, especially for women
The Battered Women's Movement and residing in domestic violence shelters.
Clinical Psychology are as far apart as It is estimated that over 90% of women
the North and South Pole. Yet, many going through the abuse shelter system
people outside of these circles will be "certified" (i.e. blessed with a
disciplines believe domestic abuse psychiatric diagnosis) by virtue of their
treatment and advocacy are navigating the mental health care
sub-specialties of the practice of system-while in route to safety-as a
psychology. Not at all so! survivor of domestic violence.
After I fled from the danger I lived in This truly disturbed me, as a practicing
Chicago, I retreated into a life of psychologist and domestic abuse survivor.
solace and wrote All But My Soul: Abuse Even more disturbing was the fact that I
Beyond Control. Creating that publication could find little to no domestic violence
was the most amazing experience of my curricula offered in psychological
life-right up there with the birth of a training.
child. It was my fourth child. In no way am I suggesting that one not
With the enthusiasm of a child, I seek the services of domestic abuse
approached individuals in the domestic advocacy; to the contrary. I strongly
violence arena, eager to share what I had believe in the work of domestic abuse
learned and produced in the manuscript. advocates. However, I recognize that when
Initially, I was not received well and utilizing domestic abuse advocacy, one
couldn't understand why, until an must be mindful of the importance of also
individual from the inner circle of the securing the expertise of a mental health
Battered Women's Movement shared the professional, authentically knowledgeable
inside politics with me. in domestic violence.
"You will have a hard time breaking into The front line treatment for domestic
this line of work," she said, "because violence and the actual practice of
you are a psychologist." Funny thing is I professional psychology are truly as far
thought this was my asset, until she apart as the automotive industry and the
helped me realized it was my liability practice of dentistry. I vowed to commit
among battered women. myself to helping bridge this huge
She explained that historically the knowledge and service gap.
psychologists were used in re-victimizing






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